gizmotto31 - After reading your thread, I felt compelled to add "my two cents worth". My TKR was just 9 days before yours and I, too, consider my self to be a very active person. At 60 years of age, I am considered a 'young' knee replacement patient, so for you at half that, I can begin to understand how difficult this period of forced inactivity is for you.
Something I was told a couple of times by medical professionals, including my surgeon, is that the younger you are, the harder recovery is. It all has to do with expectations. No matter our age, however, we all are subject to the trauma of knee surgery and for that, we have to heal. And to heal, we need to rest.
By the way, your ROM is pretty darn good. Truthfully, I don't know what my numbers are because I haven't been measured in over 2 weeks. I can say, however, that my ROM is better than it was because of how much more I am able to do for myself even just a couple of days ago. At this time, I am measuring progress by what I am able to do and this past week, in particular, has been phenomenal (the biggest milestone reached being the ability to drive a standard transmission). I intend to get measured again before my next check-up in early June, but for now it's enough for me to know that I am more mobile and more able to do things for myself with every passing day.
As for the blues - well, it's tough . . . very tough . . . especially tough for you because of your age. Where I live in near northern Canada, summer is on our doorstep and that means a season of high activity. I would dearly love to be out on my bike or my rollerblades, hiking, paddling, swimming . . . but I'm not there yet. I fully expect to be and I believe that a positive attitude will hasten my recovery.
So, take heed of the advice that the forum moderators give here. Celle, Pumpkin, kneeper, newlybionic, Jamie, Josephine - all of them - have been such a source of comfort for me. Since finding this forum just 3 weeks ago, all of my grief and anguish have dissipated. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't read, and sometimes re-read, not only the articles they send to all participants, but the posts in response to people like you. What Celle posted about the fellow who bragged about going back to work early . . . well, recovery is not a race, can in no way be a race, because we have all started, and will all finish, at different lines.
Now is the time to rest, relax, and allow your knee (as well as the rest of you) to heal. As for me, my backyard, a good book, and a beer are beckoning . . .