My pain started about 7 yrs ago with tests leading to constant bouts of physical therapy and pain meds over and over again. My last few years have been horrible with dragging myself to work for 10 and 12 hour shifts and dragging and limping my leg around for everyday tasks and chores. I’ve definitely become a professional on line shopper. [emoji4][emoji4]. I’ve been through lotsa testing and always given a final word of. “there’s just no surgery for your situation at this time” or “you don’t qualify for a replacement quite yet.” I couldn’t imagine how much worse I needed to get. In a wheelchair perhaps?? Being early 40’s at the time and looking to be in my 30’s it made it all much harder for my psyche to handle being physically handicap to a point where I sometimes have to ask for help (Did I mention my extremely independent personality [emoji51][emoji51]) soooooooo...... I choked down my pride and asked for a temporary handicap placard. I was met with “NO!! You need to walk more.” I thought I was going to have a full blown meltdown [emoji36][emoji36][emoji36]. How do you do more walking when you can barely walk at all , get dressed, pile yourself into your car and so on? People are always stopping me to ask what happened. Or I’m always being told “it hurts me to watch you walk”. I am sooooooo self-conscious of my awkward gait
So I became COMPLETELY fed up and moved all my medical to a new Doctor 45 miles away. Just far enough to be a bother when my mobility is limited. Of course my health is worth anything required of me.
Within under a year (9 months to be exact) and all testing once again I finally was approved for hip replacement. I met with 3 surgeons during this time
The first surgeon was a spine specialist in order to rule that out. The 2nd surgeon I met with shook my hand as he introduced himself and said “have you considered hip replacement?” [emoji33][emoji33]No chit chat involving information leading up to it. He just threw it at me as though I was completely prepared to hear it from the get go. I was not!

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So off I went to the next surgeon. I met with his PA first and he immediately pointed out my right hip and stated “it’s not an ‘if’, it’s a ‘when’”. [emoji53][emoji53][emoji848][emoji848][emoji26] The PA forwarded my packet to the surgeon and for a few weeks I waited to hear if they would even accept me as a surgery candidate with them. alas!! I have been accepted! Yay! [emoji4][emoji4] happy handicap dance for me [emoji1380]
When I actually met with the surgeon the very first words he spoke to me were “you’re not going to like this....”. [emoji55][emoji55]
As he explained the complexity of my pelvis (hip dysplasia) and the fact I will definitely have a longer leg after surgery “UNTIL we complete the right hip” [emoji46]. They keep throwing that right hip thing at me. What the......? I’ll be honest. I clearly have some early symptoms in the right hip/leg but no dysplasia and I’m not dragging it around. It’s my strong leg! [emoji490]
So! They have pretty well gotten into my head that the right leg is next. I just don’t know how soon next. [emoji53]
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