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I understand the frustration you both are feeling. However, try to view it this way. It took months, more likely a year or more to get to the point where you needed a joint replacement. You developed a different gait and coping skills as your joint deteriorated. It will take time to recover from the assault your body endured, as in months, not weeks.I’m in the same boat as you right now….I honestly can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel and keep thinking this is how am now going to walk for the rest of my life and I don’t believe anyone who tells me otherwise. Some days I wished I hadn’t bothered with the surgery and stuck with the pain that I could mask with pills!!
@Sweetheart5 limping at seven weeks is not unheard of, your body is adjusting to the prosthetic and the new gait you‘ve adopted post op. This can take time. Continue with the heel-toe walking and it will slowly ease.
@Abs850 Masking pain with pills is no way to live, given your young age. Long term that will negatively affect your health which you obviously know. As far as not believing anyone, we’re not trying to deceive you as many of us have been where you are mentally / emotionally and only want to support and encourage you. This situation will improve. It takes more time than six weeks.
Did you ever think of having someone drive you to a large empty parking lot to test the waters? It may not be as painful as you’re anticipating. And if it’s not, possibly just knowing you’ve tried getting behind the wheel and can drive comfortably enough will give you the boost of a small win. It’s baby steps and the small victories that get us through. Another tip that I hope I haven’t shared here already - set aside one day of the week, then on that same day, each week, look back over the past week and see if you notice improvement and I’ll bet you’ll recognize you’re doing something with greater ease. Looking for daily improvement will disappoint every time. Try to keep a positive mind set, which is healthier because brighter days are on the way, truly!How many weeks after a right hip replacement have you been able to drive. Its six weeks post op for me and I still don’t feel comfortable driving! My right knee hurts too much. I had no problem driving before the replacement!
Hugs and best wishes!
It really does take the time it takes ... but taking it slow and steady and knowing it is All Temporary really will make the recovery smoother.
Feel better soon!