Natalie
I cannot even imagine what pain you are experiencing, my teeth actually hurt as I read your description. I hope that your surgeon finds a solution to your pain.
Thank goodness for Sonja, she is really a help here.
One suggestion, I had a visit shortly after my surgery and was having pain sitting in the waiting room. I told them at the desk, as well as they could see my pained face, and they took me directly back to a room where I could lie on the table. Perhaps you can call ahead and let them know your expectation is to be given a room as soon as you get there rather than sit in the waiting area.