Hi
@Lerwick8
You're on my mind today, will be tomorrow too. Just think...after all the research, careful planning and preparation in choosing the right surgeon, making lists, checking them twice, preparing your home, the time is almost here. I hope you're feeling a sense of calm today but if you're not, you wouldn't be the first.
I'm excited for you to have this behind you and be on the other side. The side where you can breathe a sigh of relief and be thankful it's over. The side without joint pain, the side where you get a second chance to move about freely once again without the physical limitations that got you to this point.
A couple of things that helped me were noted by fellow BS Hippy's, one was
@Irish Joe who reminded me that while this was a very important day for me, for the professionals it was just another day at the office. Ponder that....they're doing what they've trained to do, what they do best!
@ScenicRte reminded me that no one is indifferent, your surgery team wants the same outcome you do. She also reminded me that a gazillion people have had hip replacement and that more than a gazillion had general anesthesia (one of my fears) and they are okay.....she followed it by saying "seriously a gazillion!" Which made me chuckle but also relax...she also reminded me that the amount you worry about something has absolutely ZERO to do with actual probability of anything bad happening......oh, so true!!
Words may feel meaningless to you at this point but there are many who care and will still offer them up in an effort to bring you peace and comfort. My prayer is that you arrive, if you haven't already, to the point where you feel ready to take it all on and move forward in life.
Get that new thread going as we'll be watching and waiting to hear "your story" and cheer you on as you recover.
Wishing you have a peaceful, relaxing day!