I'm sorry you're upset and angry. In your position, I think I would be, too.
But I also wouldn't accept the level of incapacity you have now.
No, I didn't go to rehab. We don't have rehab places here in NZ and I don't think they are necessary. From what I've read here, they seem to concentrate too much on PT, which my surgeon thinks is inappropriate so early in recovery.
I just recovered at home, following BoneSmart's advice - lots of rest, ice, elevation and regular medication. And just a little, gentle exercise.
Not all surgeons and not all PT therapists think like yours - that's why there is confusion.
My surgeon doesn't allow any PT at all for the first month after a knee replacement. He says your knee needs that time, to start on its journey of healing. For that month, we rest, ice and elevate our leg, and walk around the house.
After that month, we just go to PT once every 2 weeks, where we are shown a few new exercises to do at home.
His patients all do well and achieve good ROM, as I did, and he hasn't had to do a manipulation to help with ROM for the past 4 years. I think that speaks for itself.
I have rehabbed that way after three knee replacements and I wouldn't describe any of my recoveries as torture. Lengthy, uncomfortable and boring, yes, but not torture.