Pony,
I also love to ride horses when I went to my first surgeon he said NO that THR surgery was for old ladies and that I could expect to garden, walk, but not much else. I was in so much pain osteo necrosis. Well I did my research and found another surgeon who said I could do anything g except down hill snow skiing. With the new anterior approach and special tables and skilled surgeons from Clevland Clinic I am pain free. Fear is natural but the pain you felt after the break, is not the same as you will have post op. I had a pump, and pressed it as needed. It is only incision pain not bone pain. Keep us all updated, sending you positive thoughts and healing light. You will be back to your horses again. They are such healing creatures amazing animals. I love my Rhett he has the ability to make me forget all my troubles. Because when I ride my mind is in the moment, not tomorrow or yesterday, just the present a wonderful gift