And I am so very grateful I found bonesmart 2 years ago after my hip, but knew right where to come back to for this knee.
So, update on the car crisis to get home. I forget who mentioned this, but someone suggested to incline the seat back to give me extra room to get in. After trying the trash bag slide in the back of the santa fe, it was a no go. Too high to position myself to slide, and even when struggling to, there is an uncomfortable hump sorta mid seat. So back to my Oddesy, inclined my passenger seat, and I am able to get in the front seat with very little bending of my left knee. It has to bend some, but hopefully I'll be well drugged to make the 30 minute trip home. So that's the plan , hope it works. Thank you to whoever suggested it.
Plan B is just strap me to the top like luggage or deer.