I've just read your thread and feel so frustrated for you. I really think there's a policy (in the NHS anyway) not to perform certain surgeries if the patient is young. What they don't seem to take into account is quality of life whilst you struggle on with the pain. Meanwhile your health deteriorates because you're not getting the support you need.I now need to make the decision when I'd like to proceed and I'm incredibly torn, do I leave it or act sooner rather than later - the pain is increasing however I am managing (just about). Id be really interested on people's opinions of what they would recommend.
As others here have said, whatever age you are, you shouldn't be in so much pain, & health services have a duty of care to help you. I had hip dysplasia (diagnosed in 2007). It was only ten years later, when I was in a lot of pain, I was told my hip needed replacing. What I didn't realise, because I wasn't told at the time, was that they could have repaired my hip in 2007. But I wasn't offered any advice, except a diagnosis. Again, because of my age (I was 36) I think they just wanted to cross their fingers and hope my relative youth would get me through.
So my advice is to get the hip replaced now. Otherwise things will only get worse while you wait. Don't let your consultant tell you otherwise. You need a quality of life!
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