This is absolutely not a "smack"!!! We have two goals here on BoneSmart. One is to provide a way for people to talk to each other (and to our staff) in real time about issues they are having. The second is to provide a good flow in each member's recovery journal so that later on when people come to read about a specific recovery, the posts flow well from one to another.
Off topic posts are part of a conversation and we don't get too excited about a few posts here and there. But if the conversation stays on that off topic for a while, it disrupts the flow of the other person's recovery thread. In this particular case, the opening poster hadn't come back to post at all. That always worries us a bit because we feel a new member can think all kinds of things like....maybe his problems aren't important or that no one is interested in his recovery. Of course, we don't want that!
Your posts and the ensuing conversation have value so we don't want to lose that. It's a good fit for it to be in your thread and it frees up the other member's thread to better focus on his recovery.
So, please do not think of this as a punitive action in any way. It certainly was never intended to be that.