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zauberflöte, what wonderful news! I am so happy your younger got his GED, that is really quite an accomplishment and he should be proud of himself. And engaged?!?! And a job?!?! Wow....that is exciting! Have they set a date yet? Start shopping for a dress now....if you're like me, it will take forever to find one you like.
I have a bowl of cherry tomatoes to add to lunch...my garden overfloweth.
 
zauberflöte Hi Chris what wonderful news about both of your boys.They have achieved so much and you must be very proud parents and rightly so.Fantastic news about the engagement,the great new job and the exam success.I hope your youngest has a fantastic road trip with his friends and keep us posted re any wedding plans.
 
Congratulations! zauberflöte. Wonderful news regarding both your "boys." The highs and lows of raising children are hard to imagine ahead of time, but the highs are so rewarding. Best Wishes.
 
Hi Bygosh Its great that we are back on the Goshporch,having fun and enjoying lovely food and drink.Yes It would be great if we could meet up for real but until that is a possibility we will enjoy ourselves hanging round your very welcoming porch.

Well my recovery continues to be unpredictable with good days and bad.The groin pain seemed to disappear for a short while in early August but returned and on reflection it could have been the 10 minute swim I did as I have learnt on here that the flutter kick involved in free style can aggregate groin tendinitis but on the same day I walked up an incline in the town without realising I had done as I felt good at the time.Its the old story activity feels wonderful at the time but you pay for it later with pain.I find that when I increase activity the pain kicks in but there are others on here in the same boat.That is the end of my moan and I have to say that I have felt some improvement over the past few days and yet again I am trying to reduce the amount of paracetamol and ibuprofen that I am taking.Like you I am trying Tumeric as I have read good reports on it but its early days.Do you still use Elmore Oil ?

We are going to our caravan on Saturday and our daughter is joining us on Monday with Jack our lovely Grandbaby.( I love that word and have never heard it before you used it and now I use it all the time) my SIL works in Milton Keynes from Monday to Friday at the moment so its nice that she can join us for company.Her maternity leave comes to an end in November so she is trying to make the most of the free time she has left.I just hope the weather holds out a little bit longer but we cannot complain as we have had the best summer over here for years.

Yes I have heard of Hendricks gin and it is excellent but quite expensive.I am not much of a gin drinker but I am sure it would be lovely in a G and T.

I hope that your lovely daughter continues to improve and really enjoys her first term in college.I am sure you will miss her when she is away.Did I read somewhere that your son is in nursing as well ? I hope your husband is ok and that you are still able to get around and about.
 
Wow zauberflöte what news!!! Congrats!!! Let's all dance on the Goshporch!
ByGosh I am really intrigued by the selling thing. We have a bunch of esoteric books and we are beginning to sort, with the idea of paring down, and this might be just the right way to do that! I hope your daughter is doing well by now, and that you are none the worse for wear.
LeeApril26 you are SO on target about the highs and lows being unimaginable!
Kim22 so sorry about the tendonitis! I hope the turmeric helps. There are whole lists of anti-inflammatory foods somewhere on the Net; another forum I'm on talks about these. Worth trying, for sure!
 
Hi Everyone Peaches LeeApril26 Kim22 Littlejem Songlady sqwerlie zauberflöte anniemg Nannyannie I just love reading all of this lively and interesting chatter that we've got going on here on the GoshPorch. And the food! Mmmmmm - It's delicious - those tomatoes are perfect sqwerlie - thank you for picking them for us, even though you stretched something, we really appreciate it! (Hope it feels better by now.) Be careful with whatever else you reap, harvest, pick or pluck! No more stretching - you an' I aren't so elasticy anymore! :)


zauberflöte That quiche sounds lovely, although I just can't imagine the crust at all, it must be delicious and I'm hungry just hearing about it - you have to post the recipe for me when you have a minute, OK? I always make the same sort of quiche, and I've been wanting to try something different. An old beau of mine's Mom would make ricotta pies for Easter. I have yet to make one myself, although I've always wanted to. Yours may be a variation of that? Either way, it sounds really good.
And CONGRATULATIONS on the wonderful news about both of your sons!!! I can see why you're over the moon with happiness and joy! Two very big steps for them - your oldest son - a terrific new job and a happy engagement to his lovely girlfriend. Wow! He's moving in the right direction for a young man his age - it's really great news. How proud you must be.
And your younger son has really achieved something to be very proud of with the GED and his special certificate on top of it! Good for him! It'll be so helpful when he looks for a job. He's done really well for himself. The school he went to must have been just the right place for him.
Good work, Mom and Dad. The boys are growing up and doing the right thing because of all of your hard work raising them, with so much love and attention. It's really showing now just what a good job you did. :SUNsmile:

LeeApril26 and Songlady thanks for the detailed information about the yoga classes. I can't bend over without it aggravating the groin pain, either. That's one movement that I know for sure causes problems. But otherwise, it sounds like the yoga is manageable and really beneficial. Lenora, your 84 year old friend really gets a lot of benefit from it, and doing it on her bed is a great idea. I'll have to look that up- Asanas in Pajamas - it has a ring to it, don't you think? And it sounds like it improves her flexibility and balance, among other things. That's more and more important the older we get. That can be my homework for tomorrow in between posting books on Amazon - I'll look up the yoga she does. Gee, they probably sell that book on Amazon! I can trade for it maybe...hmmm..

Songlady I've read some about those antinflammatory foods but haven't paid much attention yet. They seem to be in the arthritis magazine alot. It would be worth looking into, at least a little bit, even just to keep in mind and see if we notice any difference when we eat them or not. Another good idea from the BoneSmartopians (thanks Peaches - another one of your special words I love.:))

It's late, but I want to answer everyone! Kim22 I hope you enjoy beautiful little Jack, your grandbaby, this weekend. (That is a cute word, isn't it? I can't take credit for it. I've gotten it from other people who use it.)
It's so nice that your daughter and her family can join you - and your SIL, too. I hope the weather holds out and lets you enjoy some nice walks outdoors.
I paddled around in the pool today and used my legs more than usual to try and strengthen the flabby muscles, and the groins really hurt later on. The OS said that kicking uses the tendon, so it must have aggravated it, just like you said about the kick. And the inclines aren't good for it, either. I did that one, too, up the road a block with the dogs - not far, just up. Too bad, because I love to do those things - walk, swim a little. It's so unfortunate that these little, normal activities can cause such pain, isn't it? It's a real balancing act - doing too much, doing too little, not knowing what's just right. Either way, I'm going to keep trying, testing the water and hoping I can find the right amount of activity that allows me to do things but not have severe pain.
Have a nice relaxing time at the sea, Kim. Enjoy your caravan and your family.

sqwerlie It's interesting how self sufficient you are with your food and what you eat. Most of us wouldn't even know how to begin to do that, growing crops, tending animals, milking, making cheese and yogurt, harvesting, canning, freezing, butchering. It's amazing that you have all of that skill and independence in your day to day life. It's a lot of hard work to do all that. It must be a good feeling not to depend so much on the rest of society to live. And the foods are so much healthier - fresh, no shipping, not sitting in a grocery store for days. They must taste so much better and be so much more nutritious for you!
LeeApril26 It's also very interesting that you worked at the age of 10 candeling eggs. I can remember babysitting at 11, and that was young. You worked with horses, too, on Long Island, if I remember correctly. It must have been much more rural than it is now, I imagine. What good experience for you growing up, to be exposed to a different type of lifestyle. I vaguely remember something about candeling eggs in a novel I read years ago. I wonder how it's done now, if it's done now? I'm sure it's not by hand or with a candle. There probably isn't even a chance, with today's factory farming, that the eggs are even fertilized.

More later, ladies. It's way too late to continue. Sleep well, everyone. And those of you across the pond, have a nice day today and I hope you all feel well enough to do something that you enjoy. Take care. :friends:
 
My, the fun t hings we talk about here on the Goshporch! I hadn't thought about egg-candling for years and years. When I was a little girl my parents had a whole bunch of chickens and it was my job to help get the eggs out from setting hens who didn't want to let them go. We had one really crabby old hen that put up a particular fuss every time and my mother would lift her up off the nest (could be a dangerous job) and it was my job to grab out the real eggs and put some wooden eggs in the nest instead of them. Not sure if the wooden eggs were to distract the hen so we could get away from her with our skin intact, or what, because if the old hen believed they were real eggs she wouldn't lay any more, would she? Clearly I have forgotten the finer points of settin' hens, but I sure do remember those wooden eggs.

Odd the things that come up in your head this time of night!

Peace and love to all here on the porch.
 
Hey everyone, sounds like everyone is here chatting away about lives stories. I was here for a little while yesterday but I had to leave before I could get a word in....lol. I want to also congratulate zauberflöte for the upcoming wedding. It will be fun for you to help in the planning of everything. We are almost to the date of our son's wedding, his is on the 27th of this month. This weekend is a shower at my house, we are hoping for good weather so it can be out in the back yard. sqwerlie the food you grow yourself always tastes the best. I used to have a big garden but I haven't had one now for several years. I always say next year I'm having one.....well next year I'm having one:wink: My husband hunts so we usually get all our meat that way, not too much of a meat bill for us at the grocery store. Kim22 I hope your pain gets better soon, you have to run after baby Jack.
 
ByGosh. I spent summers with my aunt and cousins in Suffolk county. There were lots of farms. My cousins had jobs, so I was happy to find one. Unlike Butterfly I did not have to collect the eggs-no angry chickens.

zauberflöte. Do please share the quiche recipe when you have a chance. I am always looking for recipes for my vegetarian daughter.
 
ByGosh Having a bad few days here, and wondering if there are any on the GoshPorch who can give me some tips to keep the "awfulizing" thoughts at bay. Just have lots of pain and feeling pretty low waiting for surgery and going around trying to get all the pre-op stuff done And where better to find help than the GoshPorch!
 
Butterfly we on the porch all have been where you are now.............the long wait, no matter how long it is. I cried a lot because the pain was so intense when I moved. I would plan my trip every time I stood up. I would figure what all I needed to do so I didn't have to move again for a while. I think that the closer to surgery your body gives in and the pain might become more intense. You need to set your sights for after the surgery and how good it will feel then.
 
Hi Butterfly I am so sorry that you are feeling low today which is to be expected.I actually think waiting in the weeks before the op are the worse as we just want to get on with things to reach the goal of being rid of the bone on bone pain.I agree with sandybeach with her advice of focusing on the operation date as it will be here before you know it.In the mean time chill out on the Goshporch and as it is past 8 pm over here I think we could enjoy a nice glass of chilled white wine and tuck in to some of the delicious nibbles that our friends have brought.
 
kim You are 6 hours ahead of my time. Here its after 2:00 pm but I wouldn't mind some wine right now...lol. Have a glass for me now and I will have one for you later. I hope you're feeling better.
 
Butterfly I'm sorry you are having a rough time. Waiting for surgery is the worst! I have said this on so many threads that I apologize if I already shared this with you. I was a wreck before surgery. A friend suggested the book/CD by Peggy Huddleston, "Prepare for Surgery, Heal Faster." I am not at all into meditation, etc, or at least I wasn't, but this book and CD were enormously helpful in relieving my pre-surgical anxiety, and helped me with healing afterwards. This is the website: https://www.healfaster.com/ This led me to the work of Belleruth Naperstak, also helpful. You can listen to a guided imagery meditation on her site: https://www.healthjourneys.com/default.asp
I know it sounds odd, but really I think this saved my sanity-I was so frightened before I started listening to their cds, twice a day, every day. Give the free one a try.
 
Thank you everyone for your caring! I need to get ahold of myself.

LeeApril26 I just ordered the CDs from Peggy Huddleston a few minutes ago and it should come middle of next week. I've been using the Naperstek CD, and it is good. I had also ordered another one from someone else, but it was WAY too new-age-y weird for me, and actually made me feel anxious. So I'll never listen to that one again.

For some reason I got myself all hung up on the pre-op stuff and "what if they find something awful (like lung cancer [smoker seriously trying to quit] or heart failure) that will prevent me from having the surgery and this goes on forever." I hate it when I get hung upon something like that and obsess about it and scare myself to death and can't get it out of my head. If I could get around a little better, I could do something and get my mind off it a bit, but I can't get around hardly at all. The inactivity is messing with my head. Anyway, keep me in your thoughts and prayers, please.

Peace, love, and thanks.
 
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Butterfly, you're using the wrong tactics here. I always thought of myself as "super" patient who stunned everyone because I could literally "walk on water" when I first arose from my hospital bed. I kept that image in my mind for the two months I had to wait for a new hip. I did the same thing with my knee surgeries---just keep thinking in terms of having such a remarkable recovery that no one could believe it!

I did have good recoveries---but I still can't walk on water---but I can pretty much walk everywhere else. THINK POSITIVE!!!!! Just keep telling yourself that you will be just fine, the surgery will be a snap (and it will, you'll sleep through the whole thing), and recovery following the BoneSmart philosophy is going to be great!!!!

Take care, sweetie, and keep the good thoughts. We care.
 
Butterfly When those thoughts come racing into your head, slow them down. When you were a kid did you ever play with the speed on a record? Do the same thing with the scary thoughts, just slow them down to a very slow speed. Then do some deep stomach breathing-like yoga-and think "relax and let it go." Arguing with yourself only speeds up the thoughts.
I hope you find the Huddleston cd as helpful as I did.
Here's another meditation:
 
LeeApril26 and all on the GoshPorch Don't know what I did to get this black font, but anyway -- good news, my fears were unfounded. I had a normal chest X-ray!! YAY! I think I am on my way.


Peace and love to you.
 
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