BrokenAgain
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I have no way to get to ER. My husband wants me to wait until Monday and demand to be seen in the office. He doesn't understand it doesn't work that way. He listens to my physical torturer. Who told him yesterday, "the ER can't do anything. She just had major surgery and there is going to be pain."
Yesterday my pt wanted me to stand with all my weight on my new knee leg. And bring my left leg out to the side and back in. Hip abduction/abduction exercises standinf. I tried. It hurt so bad I couldn't put half my weight. So, I stopped and said, " no. I can't." And sat down on my bed. He looked at me and said,"don't you ever say, "I can't to me again. You will do as you are told. "
I replied to him, "if my body is telling me it can't, then I can't and I wont"
He then goes on to be condescending and patronizing. I was crying when he left my room. When my husband came back into the room, I asked him, "why did you allow him to speak to me that way?" He pulls his ear buds out and after I repeat the question says, " I didn't hear anything but my book. Your pt went well today!" I'm ...what alternate universe are you on?
He is really supportive is most if my recovery but there are things he doesn't understand. Like:
going to ER
getting different PT
how much pain I am in
He does the best he can but if I force things he gets upset thinking I am not appreciative of what he is doing for me.
Yesterday my pt wanted me to stand with all my weight on my new knee leg. And bring my left leg out to the side and back in. Hip abduction/abduction exercises standinf. I tried. It hurt so bad I couldn't put half my weight. So, I stopped and said, " no. I can't." And sat down on my bed. He looked at me and said,"don't you ever say, "I can't to me again. You will do as you are told. "
I replied to him, "if my body is telling me it can't, then I can't and I wont"
He then goes on to be condescending and patronizing. I was crying when he left my room. When my husband came back into the room, I asked him, "why did you allow him to speak to me that way?" He pulls his ear buds out and after I repeat the question says, " I didn't hear anything but my book. Your pt went well today!" I'm ...what alternate universe are you on?
He is really supportive is most if my recovery but there are things he doesn't understand. Like:
going to ER
getting different PT
how much pain I am in
He does the best he can but if I force things he gets upset thinking I am not appreciative of what he is doing for me.


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