THR Bionic Jaycey checking in!

[Carriemay60]

@Jaycey We were gifted with a beautiful golden retriever that lived 14 years and we lost her 17 months ago next weekend. We did get a basset hound about 4 months later and although she's a lovely little troublemaker we still miss Balloo so much. It took a good year to even be able to talk about her without all crying and then we were able to start laughing and remembering with joy. Last week my hubby posted a portrait I never knew he had taken and the waterworks have been going ever since. I think sometimes there is a very special pet that buries themselves very deeply in our hearts. Maybe once you are settled in your new place you will be ready for another little love.

 

[Peaches]

Hi, @Jaycey. Very sorry you had the hard and sad task of dealing with Jerry's food, toys, etc.
I hope having that part accomplished helps a tiny bit.

So happy that otherwise you are having a much better recovery this time around. And, yes, ICE is the best. Cannot fathom recovering from this surgery without it. Can't understand why (at least in my experience) ice was not trumpeted from the rooftops by the hospital and OS. It was recommended, but not the way it is on Bonesmart.

I am hoping that with surgery number two a patient will feel a little stronger mentally and less insecure (mainly about the restrictions, but also about moving the op hip in general) having "been there, done that." Do you find that to be true at all? Of course I remember pretty clearly how downright tiring it was just to stand at the sink and do a sponge bath and wash my hair. It took forever and I had to sit down and rest before tackling getting dressed, which also took me a long time with the reacher thing. So maybe the tiredness after simple tasks is the same as for the first surgery?

I hope the sleep is coming better and for longer.
Also hope the dopey comments have been put to rest.

 

[Jaycey]

I am hoping that with surgery number two a patient will feel a little stronger mentally and less insecure (mainly about the restrictions, but also about moving the op hip in general) having "been there, done that." Do you find that to be true at all?

This is a good point @Peaches . I am not sure if I feel more secure or that maybe I understand the whole process a bit more - including listening to my hip. I was very light headed for weeks after my LTHR. This time I don't have that at all and it really does help. The only downside is impatience! My surgeon said I could drive at 4 weeks and I honestly think that will be possible. We shall see.

So maybe the tiredness after simple tasks is the same as for the first surgery?

This is the part I hate most. Every morning I wake up with the dread of the whole routine. The need to be constantly mindful of every step and move is draining. But I am not as tired as I was post LTHR. Maybe I am just pacing myself better?

Still early days on the sleep issue. There are days when I just can not nap in the afternoon which makes for a very long day. Can't fight it though.

@Carriemay60 I am sure there will be other cats/animals in my life. We are moving to a small farm so plenty of space. Maybe in spring. Losing both cats in less than 6 months was just not in the plan. Hopefully time will heal.

All Jerry's (and brother Ben who left us in March this year) food and some of their newer toys are on their way to Mann Cat Sanctuary - a centre that I have followed for years. They provide a home for unwanted, disabled or traumatised cats and do not believe in euthanasia unless the animal is suffering. Since they get no funding except through donations, I thought my box in memory of my boys might help.

 

[gazelle7777]

Hope your weekend is a nice one Jaycey! Hope you get some rest. Peace to you! Joan

 

[Jaycey]

@gazelle7777 you too my hippy friend. Nearly 2 weeks for us. Onward and upward!

 

[zauberflöte]

That is a wonderful thing, that you have someplace good to donate food and toys

So-- a small farm, eh? Sounds great! Let us hope the house doesn't present you with surprises over the winter ;) ;) and come spring you will be ready for a little lady-like farming!


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[Carriemay60]

@Jaycey What a fabulous charity you found! Sounds very worthwhile of your love and sharing!

@Peaches I think they only gave me ice once during my 4 days in hospital. We were then in our vacation house for a week before I was on internet, Bonesmart and the icing mantra. Such a blessing

 

[Jaycey]

I have updated this thread for awhile just because this recovery is - well downright boring! I am very frustrated with the limits to my ROM - but at nearly 2 weeks out that's totally expected. Strength is returning and I am starting to do a bit of cooking and walking outdoors (weather permitting).

I have major CABIN FEVER! I am considering going to choir tomorrow night. I can get a lift to the door and back home so no major walking. 1.5 hours of social stuff and singing. We shall see.

Hope my fellow Musketeers @gazelle7777 and @MsFit1 are doing well!

 

[beachgal]

@Jaycey, ok, I'm preaching to the choir here ( ) but do you really think it's wise to put yourself in such a public place where you could pick up any germ, etc. so early in your recovery?? I was so fearful of anything that may cause an infection, cold, just anything that could slow me down, man, I really tried to lay low for the first month. You're the pro here and I do understand about cabin fever but think this one through before you commit.

 

[NoraJ]

Hi @Jaycey, I totally get the cabin fever and the need to get out.... but is it a bit soon? As a fellow choralter I know the choir sessions can also be hard work! I still find our weekly two hours session tough going. ..maybe if it's pieces you've done before it may be easier. What type of pieces do you sing?

RTHR May 27th 2014

 

[zauberflöte]

You are allowed to go out if you promise to wear full hazmat gear... I am with the other nervous nellies! It is flu season, and , well , you know!
If yo do go, sing one for me! Remember @Songlady getting back on the organ bench at 5 weeks? You could beat her record! ;)


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[LeeApril26]

@Jaycey I am amazed at how well you are doing. Also get the cabin fever. I went nuts, but the restrictions kept me home for three weeks, then I brought my pillow with me. Restrooms were a challenge. Hope the time passes quickly.

 

[Celle]

@Jaycey
I'm right there with you and the cabin fever! I think that this time around we might be experiencing all the frustrations a little bit sooner than last time.

I know next to nothing about hip replacements, but I do know about trying to do too much, too soon.

Please take care of yourself and consider shortening your outing if you are getting tired or sore - and don't go near anyone with any sort of infection.

 

[Newhipneeded]

Sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you xx


I had THR on 15 September 2014. Had to have a bone graft due to protrusion into the pelvic bone. Also found out I have "soft bones" and therefore have small fractures on my femur due to operation.

 

[Carriemay60]

I think I might opt for a lunch out with one friend instead of choir practice with all sorts Lunch also includes wine which is super good for the soul, you will be satisfied and "others" can make themselves beans and egg on toast! I had flu last week and now seem to have another cold brewing; I won't lie, it makes me nervous of infection.

 

[Jaycey]

I will not be going to choir tonight. I didn't sleep well at all last night and woke up in pain about 3AM. Means I did too much yesterday so today is declared a rest day . I need to go to my GP for dressing removal and wound check. @beachgal I am much more worried about nasty infections with that visit than I am with choir. Will spend the rest of this week building up the walking.

@NoraJ my choir is nothing very serious. Just Rock Choir - fun stuff and good company. But yes, sessions can be strenuous and there is lots of sitting and standing. I'll give this week a miss.

@Celle I am so glad you mentioned getting frustrated earlier this time. That's exactly where I am. Just keep repeating - you can rush these things! Hope your recovery is going well!

 

[Hoppy Nanny]

Sorry you had a bad nights sleep @Jaycey...it makes the day seem soooo long when you can't sleep. That cabin fever is a trial...I got very upset quite a few times but realise now that it cannot be rushed. And...I do hope that's what you meant to say...' You can't rush these things' or we will all be having a serious word with you..lol!
Rock Choir sounds fab...sorry you didn't feel up to it! Our minds are there...it's our bodies that let us down...mind...probably too soon to be around so many people.
Hang on in there Jaycey....you are only just two weeks out!! We have our beady eyes on you! Chrissie x


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[Jaycey]

Our minds are there...it's our bodies that let us down.

So true!
Wound check done, dressing removed and small incision (4") looks fine. Got my flu jab as well. It's raining here so a good excuse to stay in today.

 

[bottomshollow]

@Jaycey, Those of us who know better are just human. Even for all the advice we give about TIME & PATIENCE, we, too, suffer from the "I just want to get on with it" syndrome. What a difference a couple more weeks is going to make----so

 

[zauberflöte]

Jaycey, sorry you didn't sleep well :( But a rainy rest day sounds good to me!
There is a sweet movie which involves a choir similar to yours. Can't remember the name-- a woman dying of cancer and her curmudgeonly husband, all glued together by the choir and its wise young director. Anybody seen it? It is not new, I saw it on Netflix.


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