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Are We Nervous Yet August Hot Shots?

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Hi, I'm popping in to say hello to my August surgery friends! I am eagerly awaiting surgery and have no regrets or apprehension yet. I am doing some work on my house to get ready for my less productive time post-surgery, and was having some really good days and wondering if just enjoying being home (I'm off for the summer), the extra rest, etc. would "heal" my hip. Well, when I went out to do errands, like taking my daughter to the mall, etc., it all came back to me, today worse than ever. I have the tears in my eyes from pain like I used to have and I realize that I am very fortunate to be having this surgery. For 3 months last fall I followed the Paleo auto immune eating program, which pretty much alleviated all pain (but did not improve range of motion, or hip function). Most of the year I have followed a healthy eating program. The last couple of weeks, because I have been busy with a huge home improvement project, I have been grabbing carb meals which is why I think I am suffering so much. Now that I know which foods affect me, I'm afraid I'll have to give them up forever (which is all my favorite, of course). Anyway, hope you are all doing well!

Oh, one more thing-my husband had a colonoscopy the other day and he was in such bad shape afterwords, groggy, disoriented-I had to dress him, etc. It made me think I might not want family near me for a while after the surgery. I was having a hard time dealing with seeing my husband in that state and I worked with elderly people for 17 years (prior to the last 25 years in pediatrics). I think it's harder to see your own family in a less than vigorous state.
 
@LaylaHips
I'm so very sorry you are in pain again! Maybe icing your hip might help? I know it helps post-op, but not sure if it would hinder or help pre-op. At least you know you're making the right decision having surgery.
I'm with you on visitors after surgery. I even told hubby that I feel he should go home once my surgery is done (it's two hours away). When my appendix ruptured, I really had no desire to visit with anyone. But that's me and I know others on bonesmart have said they couldn't stand the thought of being alone in the hospital.
 
I really don't want my family and friends around. When I am not well or feel myself,I always say I need to go into my "cocoon " and be alone and feel better. I think everyone understands this. I wish that I did not need my husband...I know that it is a burden to help....but this is my husband. We have had a hard year. He has been going through stage three prostate cancer. Surgery and radiation. I was there for him...still there. He will be there for me also.
I just keep hoping that I will rapidly improve.
I babysat my grandchildren this weekend. I HATE not being able to do the things I want to do with them! I have my two other grandchildren coming this week. It is very physical on me. I am used to being the active "fun" grandmother...now I just can't be that person.
Oh well...
I need to get busy with my art tomorrow. That always makes me happier. Pre surgery appointment this Wednesday....it is becoming a reality!
Sending good cheer to all of my fellow August Hot Shots!
 
I agree Cyntia777. I am hoping my husband gets to talk to the doctor and is there to take me home. To stay at the hospital with me is not necessary . I think I will be working with the PT the day of surgery and the next morning...then home. He would be better at the gym or playing tennis.
 
We also live 2 hours from the hospital; I think I will suggest to my husband that he returns home after the surgery, too-we have teens at home and it would be helpful if he were around for them!
 
@Medfordart, I so empathize with your wanting to be an active grandma-I have a 2 year old grand daughter and another on the way. I will watch the 2 year old when my daughter gives birth, and stay for a few weeks. My daughter lives in a second story apartment, with no elevator. When I stayed for the birth of the first child it was exhausting to carry laundry up and down the steps, take the dog out, etc., and this time I will have a 3 year old with me! (baby is due when I'm 3 mos post-op).

I was working with a one year old infant last week and he started toddling toward the door of a classroom, I had to sprint to get him before he got his fingers pinched, first time I had to run in a couple of years! I need to be able to move quickly if necessary, so hope that I can at least walk fast once I'm healed.

Not sure if I mentioned this, a younger friend of mine, age 50ish, met me in Seattle and we went on a tour. She had her right hip done a few years ago, and needs a left knee replacement also, exactly my orthopedic problems. We had so much fun together because we walked at the same pace, etc., and laughed about it the whole time. It helps to have friends in the same condition!!
 
Wondering how the August Hot Shots are doing? I'm still on vacation so no wifi in the north woods-hoping you are all recovering nicely or preparing for the big day. I still have 1.5 weeks to go-hard to believe it's so soon!
 
Hi @LaylaHips I am SO glad you had a vacation! The next week and 1/2 will go by quickly...stay busy. I am 3 weeks out tomorrow (got moved up). PT is going great! I love it. I am still working on my limp, but getting stronger everyday. Walk everywhere. This week I have been going "out". Going to lunch, grocery store ...etc. getting my stamina back. I had my 2 week check up Monday. So wierd to see the X-Ray! Stay in touch!!
 
@LaylaHips So glad that you are having a lovely holiday in the Northern hills.Are they in New England ? You will find that the last few days will fly by and you will have your new hip and your recovery will begin.@Medfordart wow your recovery is going really well and you are even enjoying your PT.Well done yours is the sort of recovery we would all love to have.
 
@LaylaHips I am getting more nervous by the day! I had my pre op with the surgeon yesterday and he said he would be nervous if I WASN'T nervous! Trying to get my house in order (big job) and keep busy to keep my mind off of my upcoming surgery.


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Cynthia777 said:
Unfortunately the surgeon I'm going with (he was my 5th) kind of threw a monkey wrench into the mix by suggesting I wait at long as possible. I think he advised me to wait because I have Avascular necrosis (no OA, in fact my cartludge is "beautiful). I've been reading that the failure rate is higher and the THR doesn't last as long when AVN is the underlying cause. He suggested I go ahead and make the appointment and see how I'm doing after I return from vacation (August 13th) and make my decision then. It's not a good place to be in. :-(
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Cynthia, I have not heard this. Yikes! I'm going to tag @Josephine to get her opinion on this. I so want to keep this hip for life and the one to follow also. Take care.
 
@Elaine F.
Vacation was nice, yet my mind kept focusing on my hip (even though I was mostly pain free during the trip).

I have read this on more than one site, however, the articles did not have the dates they were written. This is important, as I did read that cemented or uncemented was an important factor for AVN THR's (can't for the life of me remember which way was the best for AVN patients). I'm sure our surgeons are well aware of this, so I've decided not to worry about it. The Good Lord's hands will hold it together! :-)

How have you been my friend?
 
So glad you had a great vacation and pain free! That was a blessing. I'm going to ask my surgeon next time I see him. Actually won't be until October or so. I;m doing ok. Summer is winding down and I can't believe where the time has gone! Keep in touch! Always good to hear from you.
 
@Elaine F.
It was a blessing indeed! God is good!
I'll ask my surgeon as well (I think I see him on the 10th) and I'll text or call you to pass on what he says. Do you know if your implant cemented?
 
Hi cindy, No implant not cemented I hope it's healing well. Hang in there Cind; it will all be right in the end.
 
Cynthia777 said:
Unfortunately the surgeon I'm going with (he was my 5th) kind of threw a monkey wrench into the mix by suggesting I wait at long as possible. I think he advised me to wait because I have Avascular necrosis (no OA, in fact my cartilage is "beautiful). I've been reading that the failure rate is higher and the THR doesn't last as long when AVN is the underlying cause.
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If your cartilage is okay and you're not having a lot of pain, then it would be entirely appropriate to wait. I haven't read back through your thread so you'll have to correct me on this. However, the downside is that a femoral head can collapse quite suddenly so I think I would prefer to get it done sooner rather than later. I think @Jaycey might confirm this as she had a similar experience.

Do you have an xray of your hip you can post for me to see?
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as I did read that cemented or uncemented was an important factor for AVN THR's
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Not at all. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter what the reason for the replacement is, either will do as well.
 
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