Hiya Cardie, how are you doing, hope things are going well for you
The trouble is,I don't fall asleep on my back I just end up there. I go to sleep on my operated side every night.
It was so funny you mentioning my elephant, for someone just reading that post who hadn't read any others on this thread that must seem a very strange thing to say, they may think it is some sort of special medical cushion. It gave me a giggle anyway

My elephant isn't little, it is the length of a pillow...eee it is the child in me who still likes a cuddly toy in bed....the husband just doesn't cut it...not squidgy enough for my liking
I don't know about joining a gym, still have a bit of a complex about being around all the 'normal' people. There is a polygym at the swimming baths so I might look into what they have there, I know it isn't massive and not used that much so might be okay for me and my foibles
We've had horrible weather these past few days but I don't even mind walking in the rain these days, just plug in my headphones and off I trot with dogs.
I have a new exercise whilst walking.....attention Vicki
Vida;

you may like to give this a whirl.
I have been trying ro walk with a wiggle...not a limpy one, a sexy one.lol. Always found I couldn't do it. So, I've been practising my wiggle walking and found that it is easier to crunch the walnut with one side at a time if you do the wiggle. On the operated leg wiggle I have been really concentrating on the buttock lift and squeeze and I can really feel it.As per usual, I probs look like a daft lass but I'm used to that now.haha. Will have to do it when I am out walking with my friend and ask her how I look!!!!! What a laugh.