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Hello, @allahere. You tagged me elsewhere (my thread, I think), so I wanted to drop by yours and see how you are doing. You're around 4 weeks out from surgery it seems, and sounds to me as if your progress is similar to many who went through the THR at the time I did last year (I'm over 1 year out). I guess it does feel "slow" compared to the super-fast-and-easy recoveries we sometimes read about, but it's been important to me to heed the advice by others on here to NOT compare oneself to others. I truly believe what I read about how how those hips will dictate the recovery. I agree with you a thousand percent on this one, too:
Being comfortable is certainly important for thinking more positive and for better recovery. I personally can not force myself into happy thinking if I suffer physically.
The traumatized soft tissue from the surgery doesn't know "positive thoughts" from a hole in the ground. It's going to hurt in the beginning when you try to sit for long, and it doesn't matter how many happy thoughts you have in your head. I too found it impossible to find a good chair to sit in.
I rented one of those "high hip chairs" like you see at HSS's doc offices from
https://www.landmetro.com
It was $50 a month and a 3-month minimum to be paid upfront. BUT you could cancel it after the first month, which I did. So I paid only $50 and it was well worth it to me. Still, I couldn't sit there for a really long time and couldn't do work from it. I don't have any good answers about the sitting problem other than time. Once the restrictions are lifted, that will help.
I really wanted a recliner, too, but have a tiny apt., so I didn't do it. I wish you all the best with your recovery. It's different for everyone, but for me and maybe a fair number of others, it's not a straight line progression. It's got dips and peaks and valleys and is rather unpredictable. Over time the good days outnumber the bad ones. I have no regrets at all that I had the hip replaced. Take care.
Being comfortable is certainly important for thinking more positive and for better recovery. I personally can not force myself into happy thinking if I suffer physically.
The traumatized soft tissue from the surgery doesn't know "positive thoughts" from a hole in the ground. It's going to hurt in the beginning when you try to sit for long, and it doesn't matter how many happy thoughts you have in your head. I too found it impossible to find a good chair to sit in.
I rented one of those "high hip chairs" like you see at HSS's doc offices from
https://www.landmetro.com
It was $50 a month and a 3-month minimum to be paid upfront. BUT you could cancel it after the first month, which I did. So I paid only $50 and it was well worth it to me. Still, I couldn't sit there for a really long time and couldn't do work from it. I don't have any good answers about the sitting problem other than time. Once the restrictions are lifted, that will help.
I really wanted a recliner, too, but have a tiny apt., so I didn't do it. I wish you all the best with your recovery. It's different for everyone, but for me and maybe a fair number of others, it's not a straight line progression. It's got dips and peaks and valleys and is rather unpredictable. Over time the good days outnumber the bad ones. I have no regrets at all that I had the hip replaced. Take care.