Hi
@Karenship2014 . Of course you're a little nervous, this is a big venture you're heading into - there would be something amiss if you were not a little nervous.

I was ridiculously nervous... in fact I joined Bonesmart by hopping onto a thread titled "Surgery Getting Close Starting to Have Anxiety" I was so nervous I felt sick.
Now I am nearly four weeks post op and I have to say that overall things are nowhere NEAR as bad as I was expecting: The post op pain levels are very manageable, I haven't taken any daytime painkillers for weeks - but would if I needed them, I am way more mobile than I expected, I planned for and have avoided the constipation that can be a real issue with this op, the precautions I have to follow (restrictions really) I was dreading - in reality are for the most part minor inconveniences... if you have Anterior Approach you won't have anything like the amount of restrictions we Posteriors have anyway, sleep IS an issue but primarily because one of my restrictions is having to sleep on my back which doesn't come naturally to me... but I thought I would be getting no sleep - I sleep most of the night and it's not pain that wakes me, just the discomfort of not being able to roll over, and I don't have insomnia which I felt sure I would have as I am not a great sleeper at the best of times.
My wound was not as scary as I was expecting either, and getting the staples out WAY less of an issue than I had built it up to be. My scar is looking much better than I was expecting too... are you sensing a theme here

everything is less of a problem once you're dealing with it, it's the "unknown" nature of things that gets to you before surgery.
Immediately post op I was in more pain than I was expecting (you do read a lot of "I woke up and all that pain was gone", I'm sure it happens for some folk but I'm just as sure that a lot are like me) but the nursing staff address the pain issue very quickly and you can expect to have next to no pain for the duration of your hospital stay - they really do want to keep on top of it as your body can't deal with pain and healing at the same time and pain makes more noise so it will be dealt with... keep the pain at bay and your healing begins in earnest. The same applies when you get home, you'll have plenty of medication available - use it! Following the Bonesmart Mantras is the way to go (
@Josephine or
@Jaycey or another moderator will be along with some useful links for you, well worth the read!) Icing is especially helpful, the hospital I was in didn't use ice as part of their protocol (they would give you it if you asked for it though) once home I iced regularly and couldn't believe how helpful it was in pain management, I found it as helpful as pain meds a lot of the time. Of course everyone is different, but icing has it's place in THR recovery for everyone
I hope I have helped allay some of your anxiety, I know how debilitating it can be. Not long now and you'll be on the "other side" putting posts like this up to help other pre-op Bonesmarties
