NewLinda,
Welcome! I had RTKR back in March and happened upon this forum just a few weeks before surgery. It was so helpful getting input from others and helped calm my jittery nerves
My surgery and recovery were so much easier than I had anticipated and I am now two weeks away from LTKR and a pain free life. My avatar picture was taken this summer, kayaking with my grand daughter....4 months post surgery and I was in and out if my kayak with no problem.
I overpacked for the hospital and in the end stayed in the hospital gown the whole time. For the first 48 hours I had a catheter so no getting dressed with that. After that it was just easier to stay in the gown, and use a second gown as a bathrobe. But I brushed my hair and wore earrings...I imagine I looked quite chic! Or maybe not...
I came directly home from the hospital after a 4 night stay. I had prepared what I call a nesting bin, and simply kept it in the family room next to the couch. I was able to do stairs but limited them to once daily, so I would come downstairs in the morning and be there until bedtime. I kept extra clothes, socks, toiletries, lotion etc. in the bin. Lots of comfy pull on yoga pants, pull on tops and sweaters etc. also lots of pillows around the couch, which my visiting PT used for various leg lifts etc. I used a walker during the night for midnight shuffles to the bathroom and support as I stepped out of the shower, but crutches during the day downstairs. A canvas shoulder bag for carrying things around while on crutches helps a lot. One of those reusable grocery bags works great. As for ice, I am one of those rare individuals who finds ice uncomfortable. I didn't use it much and when I did a bag of frozen peas works great. But resting and elevating was important. Also for lifting the leg onto the couch or bed I simply used one of my husband's leather braided belts. The braided belts can be buckled anywhere so I buckled it at the end such that it was about a 6" loop which I put over my foot. It was the simplest way to do things. A dog leash would work the same way.
Hope this helps! Best wishes in your journey - trust me, you will be so glad you did this. New knees are awesome.
Heidi