susanlondon
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You pegged me to a T, as my mom would say. I am extremely "hard" on myself, but I am also a very active woman who has a lot of energy. The recovering knee has certainly slowed me down, but hopefully, all will be well as time goes by.
I can empathize with your man. I, like you, wanted to know all there was to know before committing to this very acute surgery. Not on,h did I read, but I also watched YouTube videos of the surgery. Yikes! If anything will make one cringe, that will. On one hand, thank God for the technology and knowledge to help those of us with worn knees to have a new lease on life, bit on the other hand, the surgery is very complex and affects so much soft tissue. My crying was often connected to the feeling of being aghast at what I'd subjected my poor knee to by giving permission for the surgery. It's amazing to consider the healing properties and power of the human body.
I hope you hubby is doing well and that you are finding some time to rest. Not many consider the caregiver's role in convalescence. My youngest son, a carpenter who also does EVERY thing around his house, was helping me several times a week for the first four weeks of recovery. Although he would do anything for me whenever I needed it, I could see the exhaustion and expending of energy on his face after a day of work and a bout of helping me before heading home to deal with several more hours of household chores at his own home.
Enjoy the weekend. My daughter in law is from Missouri. Where do you live? I'm in upstate NY, a beautiful rural area surrounded by farms and rolling hills and dales. Hooray for summer!
I can empathize with your man. I, like you, wanted to know all there was to know before committing to this very acute surgery. Not on,h did I read, but I also watched YouTube videos of the surgery. Yikes! If anything will make one cringe, that will. On one hand, thank God for the technology and knowledge to help those of us with worn knees to have a new lease on life, bit on the other hand, the surgery is very complex and affects so much soft tissue. My crying was often connected to the feeling of being aghast at what I'd subjected my poor knee to by giving permission for the surgery. It's amazing to consider the healing properties and power of the human body.
I hope you hubby is doing well and that you are finding some time to rest. Not many consider the caregiver's role in convalescence. My youngest son, a carpenter who also does EVERY thing around his house, was helping me several times a week for the first four weeks of recovery. Although he would do anything for me whenever I needed it, I could see the exhaustion and expending of energy on his face after a day of work and a bout of helping me before heading home to deal with several more hours of household chores at his own home.
Enjoy the weekend. My daughter in law is from Missouri. Where do you live? I'm in upstate NY, a beautiful rural area surrounded by farms and rolling hills and dales. Hooray for summer!
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You are much to hard on yourself, you are doing great!



(a little humor to make you smile, hopefully).