M wife is still in a PTSD mode given her traumatic injury to place her in this situation,
I’m sorry your wife is going through this. I did, a little, with my experience with my partial and the way I was treated by my PT and my surgeon post op. I did some reading about PTSD and could relate to the experiences I read about. It’s very real and can take a while to calm down from. I’m better, but no where near ready to do this surgery again.
I also wonder, and this is my own opinion, if our brain remembers the actual surgery somewhere in our subconscious, and contributes to some level of PTSD. Surgery causes trauma to the body and I’m very sensitive, so I wonder how much that has contributed, in my case.
My partial replacement has not gone well. I know there is something wrong, I have more limitations now than I did before my surgery, which was 4 years ago, but 2 second opinions didn’t find anything wrong with my X-ray, so they basically didn‘t look further for a problem. One did order some bloodwork, but that was fine, too.
Even with my problems, my ROM, which wasn’t great the whole first year did improve quite a bit in my second year, as my whole leg continued to relax and heal, and I even noticed a bit more improvement in my third year. While I was thrilled with my increased ROM, it also made me pretty angry that they make such a big deal about ROM in the early weeks/months with their push, push, push, both literally and figuratively. It came in fine, in its own time.
I hope as your wife continues to heal that she will be able to relax, both physically and emotionally. Please tell her that we care and that we’re all rooting for her, and I hope in time maybe she’ll come here herself and look around and read about the support that you have seen here and are getting.