Hi again,
@eaglemom, Thank you again for checking in, your advice, and words of encouragement. Yes, my surgery at HSS is scheduled for the 21st. I go for pre-op next week.
I would never think you're nuts for recommending music as a calming influence. I come from a musical family and it's an integral part of my life.
I have thought about recovering in NYC, at least for the first couple of weeks, but it's not the best option for me. I can't bring my three cats to my apartment. You know, cats. Tney'd freak out and I won't have the ability to care for them if that does happen. One of my cats is an elderly little lady that needs medicine twice a day. From experience, she'll be off her food from the sheer fact of being transported and will be difficult to medicate. I have their care covered by friends for several days when I'm in the hospital.
The car ride is two hours from my apartment to my house, but during a holiday rush could be, who knows? It's taken me as long as four hours to get to NYC or back in certain instances. The hospital assures me that I'll be medicated and comfortable enough to travel. They want me to stand and walk every hour or so, for about five to ten minutes, so if anyone sees me walking with my walker along a major highway in the days before Christmas, stop and say hello! I'm kidding, but this does concern me, as does the weather, the traffic, etc. etc.
The surgeon's office tells me that they do revisions at the end of the day after the regular TKRs and that I'll be in the hospital for one to two nights. If it's one night, that means being discharged on the Friday before Christmas. Not great. Friday traffic out of NYC is hellish enough. Add to that the rush to leave for the holiday and you have a nightmare. If it's a Friday discharge, I will ask to stay in until Saturday, or I can stay the night at my apartment. I'm concerned about the nerve block wearing off before I get home though. I remember doing a lot of moaning, shivering, crying, and cursing in the early days after the original TKR. (What me, dramatic? Nah!) I don't want to disrupt my neighbors in NY.
Thanks for the advice of equipping my car with pillows, blankets, crackers, etc. I hadn't thought of that. I had also not thought about lying down in the back seat. The hospital said they will brace my knee for the car ride and give me aspirins in case I can't walk as often as they advise during the trip.
Oh my gosh! Just thinking about it makes me queasy. Three weeks from today. I don't know how to do emojis on this forum on my computer, so just imagine the little vomiting one. Oof!
Thank you, again! I know you're there for me. I appreciate you and others on this forum more than I can express.