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Songlady, that was a great report, you must feel so relieved to know those restrictions are gone. You have a lot going on with your mom and husband both having ailments. How is your husband doing with his pain?
Hi ByGosh, Peaches, LeeApril26, zauberflöte.... and so, having reported my activity, can I mention how sore I still am today.....? You'd think I would learn?!
I feel that same way after a busy day, I think we're waking up muscles that haven't been used for a long time.
 
Hi Songlady I have just caught up with your thread and what a great 6 week update from your appointment with the OS So its good bye to all those restrictions brilliant especially the toilet riser.Its really good news that you can start to ride your bike again which is good timing for the arrival of summer.Sorry to hear that your mother is having health problems and I hope she is soon on the mend
 
Thanks! sandybeach, I think you said it perfectly, about waking up muscles that haven't been used for a long time - that's exactly what I feel! And yes, Kim22 - I took the riser off the first floor toilet immediately when I came home! lol (The one on the second floor will have to wait for my husband; it's fastened on somehow.)
I played the organ for a funeral service today and then for choir rehearsal tonight, and goodness, I feel as if I've run a race!
sandybeach, my husband has had shoulder/arm pain on and off for...a year? And it only bothers him some during the day, if he is in certain positions. But the pain wakes him at night, so he never gets more than 5ish hours' sleep. At first he thought it was a shoulder issue, and the dr. found out it was disc degeneration. He tried PT, and anti-inflammatories, and now the options seem to be an injection or surgery. Or an injection and then eventually surgery. The Dr showed us the MRI images and how the disc (C 5) has gone wacky so that it squeezes a nerve pathway, causing the pain.
My husband's job was eliminated when his company was sold in December (happy Christmas.... the buyers laid off all the managers at his level, throughout the country) but he was with them so long that he gets a severance package which includes health insurance through the end of 2013. His new job is part-time to start, and should be full-time with health ins. by then, but..... we are trying to make use of the good health insurance we have now, while we have it. Horrible to have finances push these decisions!
Sorry to be so wordy, but thanks for listening, my cyber-friends! :friends:
 
Songlady: Meg, that report must have been uplifting for you today. Congratulations! Also: No more toilet riser! I hope you are not feeling much more pain/stiffness from your recent activities. So sorry about your mother. You have a lot on your plate and must remind yourself you are doing your very best and all that any daughter can do. It's a difficult situation when our parents now need us in this way. And your poor husband and his back problems, too. And to be driven, as you say, by finances and health insurance, makes it very daunting. I hope this can get sorted out, but I realize how hard it is to treat a back. And job and health ins. concerns. Our company too has laid off people at Christmas, and it is in general a very "nice" company. But when they do that, I really despise it. And worry every Christmas as well, especially in 2008 and 2009. I hope his new job works out.

The blood pressure thing mystifies me. Mine was thought to be rather low post op--83, 85--and it seemed they were monitoring it every five minutes. But they didn't act like it was a problem, and I don't recall feeling odd or seeing spots like poor LeeApril26 did.

Thanks for the info about GA and dry, flakey skin, zauberflöte, but I had a spinal and epidural combo, not GA. The flakes on my operated side's calf started flaking off last week; I noticed them on my blanket! ... I also find that stiffness is helped by getting up for a lil' ol' walk. In fact I do it when I first wake up, when I feel confident my sleepyhead neighbors won't be popping out their door and seeing me pre-showered state. One morning shortly after I got home from the hospital, I actually did my practice walk with the walker in my pj's and robe. I laughed and told my cousin who was staying with me during those first few days that I looked like those little old ladies who go down to the lobby of the building in their nightgowns and robes and bedroom slippers. I always said I would NEVER do that. Well, never say never.

ByGosh ... just today I tried out that pillow you are describing. I ended up not getting it because it seemed like it might perhaps squish down too much. I didn't realize it would be heavy, too. It has been hard to find a cushion that is just right. I fear I have spent $$$ that I really do not have like a drunken sailor during this whole hip saga. Even pre-op ... always thinking if I had just the right insole, shoe, cream, rabbit's foot, I might get serious relief.
 
LeeApril26: YES, I was just thinking of Goldi today and other days when I have embarked on my endless search for "the right pillow" to park my tusch on. I even had a very friendly saleswoman checking to see if my hips were higher than my knees. She really got into it, trying to find a pillow that wouldn't squish down to less than an inch.
As we talked about earlier, I am so looking forward to the day when i can plop down in a chair that is comfortable and sit in a way that is comfortable. I am going to ask my surgeon at the checkup if I can curl my left leg under my right (operated) hip, a position that for some reason is very comfy to me. Possibly because it is aiding and abetting some other orthopedic problem lurking that I am not yet aware of. Or maybe after this is all said and done, my next big purchase (still spending like a drunken sailor ... though this one is all in my fantasy life) will be a really comfortable chair and ottoman or the early referenced recliner. Not that I'd know where to put it. But you should see the ridiculously uncomforable chairs in my apartment.
 
Songlady What a great 6 week post-op report! He said you were even doing better than last time. Good for you! No more toilet risers, you can bend down and do your own shoes and socks, (just like a big girl) and you can get back on your bike, too. Just in time for summer. :SUNsmile: You must be thrilled, perfect timing.
Sorry about your Mom's problems, though. The poor dear, and poor you having to worry about her. But it does sound like you're doing a good job balancing everything and everyone. The blood work should help them figure things out with her. And your husband will have to pursue his disc problem until he gets some relief, it sounds like.
But I must say, your house sounds great right about now, with the stone foundation and it's own natural form of air conditioning. I have two fans running and the bedroom is still almost 80. And it's midnight, too.
Talk to you tomorrow. Good luck with Mom.
 
Peaches. Hopefully we won't need these pillows much longer. I have a chaise that I love but it is only 16 inches high-like a Victorian fainting couch. Bought it many years ago and have lugged it around for 30+ years. Used it daily pre-surgery and it is driving me crazy not to sit on it. I borrowed a chair with arms from a friend and stacked pillows on it. Not too comfortable. The rest of the chairs are really impossible. Who knew? I never sit on them. I feel sorry for my visitors. A chair and ottoman sound really nice. Maybe we should sell our awful chairs on eBay. When is your check up? Hopefully he will lift precautions and eliminate the pillows. Mine is Monday and my PT says it is probably too soon to lift precautions. Five weeks now. If you can physically get your right foot under you, it should raise your left hip, not lower it, so your doc should okay it.
 
Peaches LeeApril26 It is amazing how some items take on such great importance to us now - like pillows and footwashers! And chairs and the cushions on chairs, and the height of them and couches, and toilet seats, and the tongues bunching up in the sneakers... Who would have thought that there would be so much to consider with a hip operation? It seems to me like more than any other surgery. Maybe not, I've never had any other surgery. But this is so limiting for such a long time - weeks, months sometimes. So the little things that make life easier, are really important. And when those limits are gone, like now with @Songlady's restrictions lifted - it's freedom! The little things we took for granted everyday before that were taken away from us, and are now like gifts when handed back. Even that first shower. And hairwash. Remember how wonderful they felt? Gives us a whole new appreciation to the small things.
Peaches Spending like a drunken sailor, huh? Well, as long as you're not walking like one - don't want to harm that priceless hip! LOL
 
ByGosh and LeeApril26: I see we are night owls tonight. Turned off the AC (since I need the money for all that drunken sailor spending) and now have a fan blowing on my face. I don't really feel I have bought one thing that was useless--that's the problem! For example I finally bought a shopping cart, like you see little old ladies (not just little old ladies anymore) rolling around on the streets. One of my post-surgery resolutions is to act my age and stop lugging heavier and heavier bags of stuff here and there. I mean, honestly. But that's what you do when you live a carless life. However, I am certain I have overdone it. I have found two grocery stores nearby that deliver for free. So I will do that (I think). Maybe it will turn out the lumbar pillow I just bought to take to work is a bust, but I think it's worth the risk. All those ice packs have been essential. Ditto for the heating pad. The rabbit's feet, well, that was magical thinking.

Yes, I have felt very sorry for my visitors when they stare at my motley crew of chairs. Your fainting couch sounds like something that played a big role on "Mad Men"? (Do you watch that?) I stare at my couch--which now is just a rest stop for file folders and stuff like that--with yearning, wishing I could just curl up on it and read or watch TV. I wouldn't feel like I'm "going to bed" like I do when I lie on the bed. And I confess I lie on the bed sometimes just because NOTHING ELSE IS COMFORTABLE!

I am ending my sixth week tomorrow; my checkup with my OS is also on Monday! I can't wait for us to finally get this over with, questions answered. I wish you all the best!!

I have been acting like the restrictions WILL be lifted, but have not seriously prepared myself for that not being the case. I know I have gotten lax about some of them, but it's possible too that early on I was overly cautious. I do the golfer's stance with abandon, whereas earlier I didn't dare.
 
Peaches and ByGosh. Yep, also have fan blowing-no AC on. That's for July/Aug.
I do watch Mad Men but don't recall the couch. I have tried stacks of pillows on my couch, but it is too squishy.
Have to stop typing as my hand is killing me, but wanted to thank you both, and my other BS correspondents, for helping me keep my sanity. How can you explain all this to someone who hasn't lived through it?
Soon to have my hand in a carpal tunnel brace??? Am in need of retail therapy.
 
LeeApril26, don't respond. I don't want your hand to hurt. Yes, retail therapy! I did some of that today--though I didn't buy anything. But I shopped (will post about that later, on my thread) in stores just like a normal person. And it was really fun. Thank YOU too for all of your support. True that so many who have not been in the THR trenches have a clue. Did I mention I had a friend (not a close friend) who actually thought I would arrive home in an ambulance and would be lying in a hospital bed at home and in a wheelchair? She seemed a little miffed to see me "up" with a walker and then a cane, as if I had exaggerated the whole thing. She keeps telling me that "in the past, they had patients in wheelchairs during recovery" and I have gently told her, "No, I don't think they ever did that." I know they didn't do that to my aunt back in 1994; she too was "up" right away, only in her case she got to go to "the good rehab" for a week and the ins. co. paid for it. It wasn't a nursing home with a few PT exercises thrown in.
 
Hi Songlady what a wonderful report, I'm sure you are so happy to get it!! The explanation about the popping is so plausible too and if they were about to go anyway then all is absolutely perfect!! Sorry you still have concerns about your mum, I know the feeling that you need to check everything the hospitals and carers do for them and yes they get it wrong far too often.
 
Peaches. Do post about shopping. I want to shop vicariously :) (Just learned how to do smiles). How odd that your friend is disappointed that you are not more disabled. Yeah, my insurance would have paid for sub acute care with one hour of PT a day, which I would have done if I needed to, but luckily was mobile quickly. We have a scary staircase that I didn't think I could manage but it was okay.
 
LeeApril26 ... yes, she was very odd about this surgery thing. (And really more like a friendly acquaintance.) Has been out of the workforce for a long time. Has no idea really what a THR is and seems confused. She doesn't go online and look things up. She kept telling me that in the past THR patients were put in wheelchairs for recovery. Uh, maybe years ago, but I am dubious. In the mid 1990s the people I know who had THRs were not in wheelchairs. I think she kept equating it with a broken hip. She also wanted me outside taking walks in the sun the second day I was home from the hospital. I guess if you lived in the suburbs maybe you could take your walker outside on day two (?), but I was nowhere near going outside for a week or so. My PT didn't allow it. I remember she was cautious about me taking the elevator (I live in an elevated building) by myself. I could do steps when I returned, too, but toddler style. They taught us that at the hospital. Did you do your scary staircase toddler style and do you still have to do it toddler style?

My surgeon vehemently opposed my going to the nursing home; he said the PT is negligible and you can pick up an illness or infection too easily. I had my dear cousin for the first few days stay with me, and he knew that. He said he would only suggest it if I had no one around. The sickness/infection thing scared me. He said if ins. would pay for it, he would always suggest the 'good rehab' (non nursing home; I guess they are called 'acute'?) places. I guess we had our THRs too late. I'm still glad i got to come home.
 
Songlady, It's good to see that you were able to play the organ:thumb: You will soon be back to your normal life although it takes time to get all those muscles back to working so give it time. It's too bad you and your husband had all the stress of company lay offs. But it sounds like he was able to move onto a new job and soon life will be back to normal. I hope he gets his back issues resolved, it's horrible to have back pain.
 
Peaches, zauberflöte, ByGosh, LeeApril26, Littlejem, Elosarabrab, sandybeach, and Kim22 - As I was showering this morning a few things came clear to me (what a place to have insights! lol): just because the "restrictions re lifted" doesn't mean I can do all these things. I think my OS relies on my common sense when he tells me these things! :heehee: But... as I was showering, I thought, "yay, I can wash my feet!" Wellllll.... no. The op leg doesn't feel reliable enough for me to stand one-legged on it while I wash the other foot, and I am not confident I'd have the balance or flexibility to raise the op leg enough to reach the foot! Same for putting on my shoes and socks. And - actually?? Riding a bike....? Not yet!! :loll: (That's OK.... it was supposed to go to the shop for a complimentary tune up in late winter, and one tire is flat.....so I'll ask Son to help me; he can load it into the car and we can bring it in sometime next week.) So, the concept of what I am "permitted" to do and what I in fact "can" do are a little different! The one big thing that's improved is that I am not nervous about obeying arbitrary restrictions - I can let my own strength and comfort be my guide. (which is sort of what I've been doing anyway. :heehee: )
And Peaches - I had dry, flakey skin, also, and it sounds as if I had the same anesthesia. I figured it was just that I couldn't scrub my legs?! Who knows. When I went for the pedicure a week ago, the pedicurist commented on my dry feet! :shocked:
 
Songlady. Thanks for sharing your shower thoughts, that makes sense. I imagine you will find yourself doing stuff automatically.

I can reach the foot of my non operated leg to put cream on. I put a glob on the bottom of that foot and rub it all over the other one. Messy but it works.
 
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