I'm back from my MRI consultation with the surgeon.
He doesn't believe my arthritis is bad enough to warrant hip replacement and is willing to try a labral repair, with the caveat that it might not relieve my pain completely and that I will probably need a hip replacement down the road. He showed me a picture from the MRI, pointing out what he was seeing, including a small cyst.
He instructed me to avoid movements that hurt and wrote a prescription for Meloxicam to help with the pain. He said that "sometimes things like this just go away."
He also urged me to think about the options and get a second opinion, either with a hip replacement specialist or a hip preservation specialist (for arthroscopic labral repair).
I talked to him about feeling dismissed after the last surgery. He apologized for coming across that way and encouraged me to call (his cell phone) any time with questions, concerns or clarifications. That felt good.
I'm hoping that the Meloxicam relieves the pain enough that I can strengthen the right muscles through PT. Not sure what else to do. I can't stay away from the movements that hurt, as those include walking and standing. Fingers crossed that Meloxicam does the trick.