Nomorepain67
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Hi Rlucillem
We have all had our down days, some more than others because that is what life dealt us. I try to take comfort in knowing my mom is watching over me even if she can't be here. My dad is still with me and we have our challenges, but he would be the first one to say the wrong one went first. Many days I think it is so unfair she was taken so young (70). One thing I have found helpful is to keep a journal of my recovery. I also use my thread on this forum to keep track of all of my little victories. It really helps on the down days to be able to look back and see all of my progress when it seems like none is happening. I actually am amazed when I see how much I can do today 10 weeks out than I could that first week just getting exhausted by trying to stand. That way you can track your own progress and not compare what is happening for others. Its been a hard road for me to watch others do things for me, but I realized if I keep pushing it will take even longer to recover. For many of us we went forward with the surgery because we are active and want to stay that way or get back to that way of life. Try to look for the small rays of sun and before you know it, you will be on the way to recovery. There is no rainbow without the rain and sun together.
Hugs
Stacie
We have all had our down days, some more than others because that is what life dealt us. I try to take comfort in knowing my mom is watching over me even if she can't be here. My dad is still with me and we have our challenges, but he would be the first one to say the wrong one went first. Many days I think it is so unfair she was taken so young (70). One thing I have found helpful is to keep a journal of my recovery. I also use my thread on this forum to keep track of all of my little victories. It really helps on the down days to be able to look back and see all of my progress when it seems like none is happening. I actually am amazed when I see how much I can do today 10 weeks out than I could that first week just getting exhausted by trying to stand. That way you can track your own progress and not compare what is happening for others. Its been a hard road for me to watch others do things for me, but I realized if I keep pushing it will take even longer to recover. For many of us we went forward with the surgery because we are active and want to stay that way or get back to that way of life. Try to look for the small rays of sun and before you know it, you will be on the way to recovery. There is no rainbow without the rain and sun together.
Hugs
Stacie
I do wish people wouldn't tell PKR patients that their recovery will be easy - it just sets you up for false hopes and disappointment!
Truly, it will get better.