Royal. I had those same thoughts that I could cope with the arthritis. Worried that I'd come out worse off than what I went in. Was this going to be the thing that causes a cascade of medical treatments & procedures that land me in a wheelchair? It wasn't. It's been great! I have a super hard time making big decisions & boy am I glad I bit the bullet & did this. My new hip allows me to move that leg so much better than I ever could before. You know that age test where you sit cross legged on the floor & see if you can get back up using no hands? I couldn't do that before, heck sitting on the floor in any position was almost impossible, well can pass that test now. Limp is gone. Leg strength is back. There is no visible sign that I have an artificial hip except for the scar. They have this surgery down pat. Try to think how nice it'll be without the pain & limitations you are enduring now. My preop thread is titled feel like a ninny who can't decide, covers all the angst & indecision I felt. Good luck, I agree with Jaycey, poke around on this site, read the positive outcomes. it helps.