Thanks Cardie. I am laughing at your use of the word "normal." Is anyone normal anymore? But yes, you have a lot more complications to your situation than I do.
But thanks for the pointers on how you "manage" your therapists. I work with a main...and very experienced...therapist, plus her assistant. The assistant is the one who said do the 30 leg lifts, and then he wandered off. When they started to hurt, I should have just stopped right then and there....I know better!! But I am by nature a people pleaser, so I stupidly plowed on through.
Yesterday I saw the main person again, and when I told her I felt like the session had set me back, she fully addressed it and it felt much better. So I'm just gathering some scripts to use to be very proactive for myself from here on. Your methods definitely help.
Yes, Alex was anti the foam roller, and I would agree. There is a lot of incredible tenderness just under the surface...both in the bursa area, and it the middle of the lateral thigh area. It takes very little pressure to stir everything up. So the (mostly) gentle stretching and manipulating they are doing so far feels helpful, but anything too aggressive is going to hinder rather than help. The foam roller feels agressive!
We soldier on!!
Sharon