Hi,
@glidefloss , & everyone else. I’ve been a bit AWOL the past few days....we’ve been working on getting our gardens in shape for planting, & found that the timbers on one totally had to be replaced! ( at the moment, I’m sitting with a heating pad on my lower back). But, they look great! And we are both so excited!! Our favorite nursery, a small, family run one here in town will be open this weekend, & we’ll buy some of our plants. Always a real joy to us, we have literally watched their 2 sons grow up , from teenagers to young men. I’m still working on starting some of my own veggies from seeds, but their tomatoes are always so very good! Also, their tomatillos, chard & broccoli.
@glidefloss, you sound like you are doing so well! It’s interesting, as I read some of your posts, I actually find that for the most part, I cannot remember the actual pain. I do remember that it was pretty hard, but much like they always say about childbirth, you don’t remember the pain. I Do remember being in such pain Before my surgery, that there was so much I just could not do! My husband was saying today, “ it’s so Good to see you feeling like doing this, you love it so much.” While he did the Hard part - tilling, lifting the bags to till in, not to mention rebuilding the one garden, & of course, tilling everything in. I helped with cleanup, & doing some clipping of suckers in one area & working on cleaning out our shed ( at least, Starting on it). It feels So great to be out there working! And, cooking & baking again. My quality of life is So much better!
I read some of your latest posts, & recall a lot of memories. On your posts, and others, I notice those wee hour of the morning posts. I’m a pretty sound sleeper, so that insomnia was something Totally foreign to me! It did pass, but I remember reading Bonesmart in the middle of the night. We tried several options fairly early on.... our bed, the futon in my sewing room, but, the only place I could really sleep Fairly well was our big couch downstairs. And, as my husband is a light sleeper, I knew this was the only way he would get any decent sleep. It took a while, but getting back upstairs in our bed is Really nice! ( kitty is much happier also, as she felt compelled to spend time with both of us, & was up & downstairs all night).
I’m thinking, you are nearing the 2-week mark. One of my surgeon’s PA’s told me that the first 2 weeks are rough, but then it gets better. I think that did ring true with me. And with everything you are doing, I think you are ahead of where I was. And congratulations on the clearance to drive!! That’s a great feeling! I still am enjoying that feeling of independence of driving our little Subaru Forester standard shift for errands & shopping. My husband does any longer drives, but, I enjoy driving around our little town.
Btw, I do agree with your doctor’s philosophy on the timing of surgeries.... I’m also pretty headstrong ( or, as my Grandmother would say, “ I’m not stubborn, I’m just Determined!”), and, I resisted this surgery for a Long time. Then when the Pandemic hit, it was really not possible. By the time things had cleared, I was Ready. And, I still say, even with the setbacks & sometimes frustrations , I’d do it again, in a Heartbeat!
I hope your swelling resolves itself soon. I don’t really remember any of the swelling particularly; I did use the ice machine a lot, and mostly, I seemed to have pain from the bruising. I do bruise rather easily, as I tend to be a bit of a klutz at times, and I do find bruises rather painful & irritating. I’m wondering if, as you are up & active more & more, that will get better. But, Do be sure & get your rest!
Well, the sun is out, & it looks to be a beautiful day. Our big tree in our backyard is beginning to have some blooms beginning. So I will definitely have to spend some time outside & enjoy it! The blooms are white and beautiful, and have a lovely fragrance.
Do have yourself a lovely day, and everyone else. I do believe our spring weather is finally arriving, at least here in Colorado.....