Note to the moderators: I apologize for starting another thread, but for some reason I wasn't allowed to post to the old thread. It has been quite awhile.
Last week marked my 10 and 20 week anniversaries for my tkr's, and my final visit to the surgeon. He said that there was really no reason to schedule another visit, and that I should always call if I experience anything that concerns me. So I shook his hand and said "Thanks and Sayonara!"
Everything is not yet quite 'normal'. My left 10-week-knee still gets a little tight every few days or so. However I can ice & elevate it and rest for a few hours and it is good to go. I can kneel carefully on both knees which is important, because I am getting back to my yoga stretches. I'm walking totally without a limp. The doc said I could start hitting golf balls on the range if I go easy. So I did and it really wasn't bad. A little swelling afterwards, though. Ice and elevation and rest took care of it. I probably won't get out on the course until the new year. I am off painkillers and sleeping much better.
For me, the sleep disruption from urination and nighttime medicating was the worst part of the whole experience.
Here's the important thing: The progress of both knees were almost identically similar. The benchmarks for me were when I was able to 1) get rid of the toilet riser and the shower chair, 2)
when I was finally able to lift my foot high enough to effectively wash the bottom of my foot in the shower, 3) when I was able to bend my leg enough to effortlessly get into the car, etc. Also measuring the flexion and extension - the recovery was much the same for each leg. But here's the difference: July 2nd was the date for my right knee surgery, and I swear to God - I had almost no pain, ever. I stayed ahead of it with the medication the first few weeks of course, but the only time I would feel pain was at night while trying to sleep. Even that was gone after 7 weeks, and I was totally off the meds by week 8.
So, I went in for the left tkr 10 weeks later, totally fearless. Gosh, was I surprised. The left knee hurt when I woke up in recovery, and I still have discomfort at night now!!! Like I said, the metrics of recovery were comparable to the right knee experience, but pain-wise, the two knees were night and day. So I've been on both sides of the pain issue. I liked the easy side better.
Bottom line: I'm so glad I did it. My advice is to learn as much as you can, read everything you can find here at Bonesmart, do your exercises, and take responsibility to listen to and work with your Physical Therapist. And be positive - Attitude means everything. Good luck to all of you.