I am brand new to this forum. I had my left hip replaced on 4/16/2024 so I'm on day 12 now. I'm feeling like I'm behind on my recovery as compared to others I know that have had a hip replaced. Most people I've talked to have been pain free and fairly mobile at 2 weeks. I'm still relying on my walker and cane at all times. I can get anywhere in my home I need to including up and down stairs but I don't feel like I've got much control over my left leg at this point. I have weaned off of the narcotic pain meds for the most part and am relying on Tylenol and ice as my pain management means. The only pain I experience is when I am up and moving. There is still some swelling and tightness. I am just searching for others going through what I am to see if I'm as far behind on my recovery as I feel.
Don't believe them.
I watched with particular attention more than one friend & relative go thru hip replacement recovery just because I knew there was going to be one not to far in the future for me.
It was very positive and encouraging watching and talking to them at the time they were recovering , but it is amazing to me how their stories change two or three years later .
One relative I enjoy getting together for breakfast with on semi weekend basis.
Well I showed up for breakfast after my second week into recovery with my cane & he questioned my still needing a cane I told him that I was still having some swelling & a little pain, and he told me he did not need a cane & was feeling no pain at all after his second week .
Don't know if he noticed the smile on my face when he said that because I distinctly remembered him not only using a cane when we met for breakfast a couple of years ago when he was just past the 2 week point but I also distinctly remember him calling me the night before suggesting that we have breakfast at a restaurant that was not our customary place to go .
When I asked why he wanted to go to different establishment he told that this other one did not have any steps at the entrance to climb and he was still feeling some discomfort climbing steps.
I can tell you I have heard similar revised testimonials of history from each and every person I observed going thru the hip replacement recovery process.
I did say to my breakfast buddy after he told me he had no pain at all and no need for a cane at two weeks just to see if I could tweek his memory back to reality:
" Wasn't that about the time you called me the night before and asked if we have breakfast at a place we had never gone before , and we only ate there that one time ? "
It still did not register with him what i was driving at so I just smiled again and let it go.
I really do not believe people revise their recovery process intentionally , I think it is more just a by product of how well they have recovered over time & mentally they just cannot picture themselves being in the state they were once in.
I have told myself that I will never be one of those people who claims to have been doing cartwheels after a couple weeks.
You are only going to get the down & dirty facts from me.
In fact as I sit hear today I am mentally kicking myself due to having overdone it ,going on 5 weeks out , by thinking I was ready to do a fair amount weed whacking around my yard yesterday.
Wrong!
It's not a sprint it's a marathon .
Kind Regards , Dorsey