@AfterCare .... I'm so sorry to hear about all you're dealing with and I do think you need a different surgeon.
I don't know if you saw our emails around the end of January or not, but on January 29th we implemented a new 2-tier membership program that changes your membership on the forum. You are currently a Basic Member. This is our free membership that allows you to use our search tool to find and read threads on the forum and the ability to post on-topic comments on existing threads. But the services such as as surgeon recommendations and personal staff guidance are part of a new group of premium services that require a subscription to our new Insiders Club. We are still a non-profit organization and the small amount we ask for these services helps to maintain Bonesmart on the web to support patients worldwide.
Please take a look at our
Membership Page and the
Guidelines for Posting and you'll see what these changes mean for you. I hope you'll consider one of the options for the Insiders Club so we can give you the one-on-one support I believe you need in your situation. I'm happy to answer any questions you may have about membership.