@Hipster63, I ice 24/7, literally. I don't go an hour without being hooked up to the ice machine. As long as there is some fabric between your leg and the pad, I don't think it gets cold enough to damage the skin. At least it did not mine. Just take care till you get accustomed to it.
One other thing regarding the Ossur cooling pads that I did not know till after opening everything up, is that the pads are single patient/single use. That means they are not designed to store for a long period between uses. I believe it's because you can't drain the water completely from them due to internal baffling. If it sits in storage too long it is likely to start growing mold, mildew or bacteria inside the pad.
I suppose you could flush the pad with chlorinated water but the chlorine would likely deteriorate the material over an extended time. Out of curiosity, I tested my pad out a few weeks before surgery, then got nervous about bio contamination. If I had to do it over again, I wouldn't put water in the pad until a few days prior. This just may be a lot of needless worry on my part, but I didn't want to take chances with infection.
By reduced offset, I mean a reduction in the lateral offset of the femoral stem from the hip joint. In essence, it reduces the distance between the femur and the pelvis. It's done, I think, by choosing stems with different length necks (the ball is attached to the end of the stem neck). If the OS is not changing the stem, he may not be able to reduce the offset, since I think the stem/neck configuration is a single unit. I would, of course, defer to
@Josephine, on all of this. I have no medical qualifications, so she will be able to give you the correct answer to your question.
I don't know how to advise you regarding the fear and anxiety leading up to the surgery, other than to say most, if not all of us, go through it. Certainly mine was much easier with the original THR because I was blissfully ignorant of what was in store and the risks seemed (and truly are) small.
However, coming to the realization and acceptance of the need for revision surgery, my head was in a constant state of turmoil. I could barely put a coherent thought together. Once I accepted what must be done, I was able to put most of that fear and anxiety aside. Like I said, not always, but enough to continue to function.
I think we are all stronger than we think we are. We just do what needs to be done. You'll find many stories of courage, grace, and perseverance on this site. They are all stories of inspiration, each unique in there own way. I found my inspiration following
@chalcedonian1. Her story, challenges, and concerns were so similar to mine. Your surgery will be here in just a few short weeks.
Do the things you enjoy to distract your mind from the fear. What is left then is the recovery and healing. I'll be following you to see how you're doing and wishing you well along the way.