To all, I wish you continued strength and peace in your individually, unique recoveries as the spectrum of recovery is sooooo very wide. Heed the wise advice of our fellow friends. Don't measure yourself to others. To those of you facing upcoming surgeries be positive, yes, your fears are real, but so is hope! Like @
AlanInAZ, I've talked to my PT and with the advances in medicine, she is seeing many smooth recoveries, too. I didn't do so, but in retrospect, had I had fears and knowing what I've experienced and reading of all that my BS friends have gone through, I would ask, ask, ask your OS what they think you should anticipate in recovery. Of course, it's so individual - but they know your current condition and the recovery pattern of their other patients. Hopefully, they can provide some personalized insight.
Something else I recommend that you review when considering an OS or awaiting surgery - ask for and familiarize yourself with the post op instructions. Are there restrictions/precautions? How soon can you shower? How long is a walker or cane recommended or required? For me, having read my OS post-op instructions that are general to all of his THR patients (see below), prior to surgery, I set recovery goals in mind that were within his guidelines: no hip precautions (no movement or degree limitations - only pain will stop me); Yay!

shower when I get home; drive within 5-7 days if not on meds; don't overdo. Prior to surgery, I hadn't found BS - if I had, these goals might have seemed overly aggressive. So, consider the sound advice of BS and know your OS instructions.
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calikat- my OS is Dr. Jason Snibbe,
broken link removed: https://www.snibbeorthopedics.com. Informative website - under patients read about conditions; patient documents - the THR post operative instructions (near bottom of page) provide guidance & insight (ie ice, meds, no hip precautions, showers, driving) ; under "about", read the testimonials. He's in Beverly Hills, and to those of you that may think he's only there for the stars or rich....please stop and don't jump to conclusions

. I'm a not either...just very blessed to have found a wonderful OS and grateful he was in network with my insurance co.
To each of you that have responded, thank you again, and to all, big hugs of encouragement...God bless!