@PuppyLove @PuppyLove your Golden puppy is gorgeous and actually looks quite a bit like our Golden, Trooper. When I saw your puppy lying in the bluebonnets, I immediately had to look to see if you folks were in Texas (yes). Although we will likely never get to meet you and your husband, if you folks are ever in the Austin area, get in touch.
@HerbM you sound like you're doing great! I had a similar experience with home health. After the first nurse then PT visit, I called the OS and told him I'd prefer outpatient PT. I went to a center my hubby used after shoulder surgery. What I found really helpful was that they tailored the routine around my bad knees and gave me exercises to strengthen my muscles in anticipation of TKR. The PT even made up a list if exercises to do in the pool, so I could do more rehab at home. It sounds like you're more physically fit than I was, but it may help to have some experienced folks to guide your rehab.
Sounds like you and I have similar thoughts on this.
The only reasons for even allowing them to come, were that it is free (insurance co-pay is maxed out), everyone encouraged me (including my Aetna INSURANCE nurse) to get all the help you can, and finally in the spirit of doing all that is practical.
As to fitness, I have some issues:
- Weight (but my my BMI is only about 25 right now and BMI doesn't really come out correct for either big boned and athletes with lots of muscle.) Muscle or fat, my knees still need to haul it around (225 lbs.)
- System wide osteoarthritis at a moderate level (almost all joints).
- Tight ligaments and tendons -- even with stretching and yoga (which I am not doing much right now) my flexibility and mobility are always something to deal with. (I am actually surprised that my knees weren't sore from the surgery and that the quads aren't MORE sore.)
Beyond that I am still very strong (even at 62) and have a lifetime of playing most sports and doing many martial arts, as well as the mental attitudes developed by these sport, MA, Army Airborne, and special forces training.
Please don't misunderstand this last, I am not a believer in "no pain, no gain" but rather always try to follow the directions that pain gives us about what we should do and not do with our bodies.
In general, pain is NOT a "Bad Thing" and those without it seldom survive for very long.
Pain is INFORMATION and a message from our bodies that we should change our behavior.
Like any message or information, pain can however be misleading, wrong, or just outdated (e.g., the problem is already noted and being corrected.)
Pain beyond the point where the information is accurate, useful and necessary IS a "Bad Thing" however.
Another item that has not so far been mentioned by me is my extensive training an experience with hypnosis and pain control.
Note: A key with hypnosis is to never turn off a pain unless you have dealt with the source or you are working to get proper medical treatment.
This is both good ethics & good sense AS WELL AS critical in making these methods of reducing pain more effective. If your unconscious 'knows' you are doing the 'right thing' it is far more likely to reduce or turn off the pain.
[I strongly suspect that the severe pain that hit me while driving to the surgery was my unconscious dropping its pain reduction efforts (ongoing for weeks or months) to remind me why the surgery was so necessary.]
Our Y is very close to the house and has a therapy pool with waist deep warm water for walking and mobilizing joints. They even teach arthritis workout classes in there.
The idea of prepping the body with exercises before the TKR/THR seems extremely important for those that can do that.
That you are planning a BTKR for November is going to put us in the same (or near) cohort. Right now, I am tentatively targeting October 19th (2 months from my THR this week

) -- my surgeon said he could do it in 2 months after the hip, but we need to see how good my health remains and make the final decision on bilateral or single (maybe you and I should chat).
But we already did the BioMet Signature MRI so that the custom instrumentation (jigs and cutting guides) can be made. The main thing I want to talk to my surgeon about on Monday is what makes the most sense for the knees
Updated: I remembered we had on of those "barber massage devices" that fits over your hand and just finished 20 minutes of working on that quad soreness.
Should have done that 3 days ago -- I actually found the massager in the week before surgery while clearing up clutter; we hadn't seen that thing for years. We also have a big "chiropractor's massage machine" that takes two hands to hold like a portable sander.
Tomorrow I am going to see if Carol is able to work on my thigh some more with the BIG machine.
Here is a 35 second video from my 10 minute combatives (slow flow) workout the evening after my surgery. I am the guy in the dark shirt. Remember most of the stiffness in my legs is the KNEES not my brand new hip.
I am in NO pain there, and though not moving very gracefully on my feet, that is not interfering with me smoothly and effortlessly taking away the attackers' knife each time. (Nor in attacking my friends

)
Remember this is a SOFT FLOW DRILL and not actual fighting -- they were doing that when I arrived and that was exactly the drill I had planned to ask the to work with me.
The big guy was using too much strength at times, but that is because even though he is a VERY experienced martial artists -- he teaches unarmed methods to his local police force -- he is also a newcomer to this method of disarming knives with little or no real effort.
I just avoided his strength when he did that with me. (That is part of the secret.)