Layla, thank you for your beautiful message. It brought me to tears. Some days, just hearing someone say you’re going to be OK would be all it would take for me to remember that I’ll get there and it will just take more time. Part of what I love about this community is that even the small things are celebrated as a win. So many physical therapists could be much more encouraging when working with patients who have layers of complications. And kindness goes such a long way. Especially when we’re feeling overwhelmed and swallowed up by fear. Thank you, Layla for your kindness and encouragement.Good Morning,
I am so sorry you're feeling alone during such a difficult time, beralc. Recovery from TKR, TKR Revision and MUA is already tough, and not having the support of your loved one makes it even harder. Please know that you're not alone here. There are many here who care about you and we're cheering you on as you heal. Your strength in facing these challenges on your own has been incredible and each step forward, no matter how insignificant it feels, shows your resilience. Give yourself lots of TLC, allow yourself rest and know that brighter days are ahead. Your are stronger than you think and you will get through this.
Sending you a warm hug and encouragement.
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I can’t wait for the sudden “burst” of success.@zippy005 I do feel for you. I can’t imagine how I’d got through this recovery so far without my husband.
As you say patience is very much the watchword to recovery. And successes can come all of a sudden. So yea got to just keep moving forward as tolerable and things will change.
I do try to factor in the things I do around the house, grocery shopping and running errands, cooking, etc. I haven’t taken a single day off, though, where I don’t put in at least an hour or more with individual exercises. I can’t imagine skipping a day. So fearful of going backward.I agee. This is what I call Natural PT. It is all the movement that the exercises have, but done in a natural way, which, in my opinion, is more valuable.I think you need to count your housework
as part of your exercise total.
I think we've all had that fear at some stage in this journey, But overdoing it can be just as couter-productive as doing nothing. And an hour a day -- in addition to your ADLs -- sounds like overdoing it.I can’t imagine skipping a day. So fearful of going backward.

I know my ROM still needs a lot of work and I put in at least an hour each day with focus on bending. Any feedback would be so helpful to me. Thank you.
You know…In my heart, I know I need to cut back on the PT some, because I do this to myself in my own home gym. I’m always so worried that if I slow down, I will lose ground and I’ve worked very hard just to get my room to 97. But I think you’re right, I need to back off and let my leg rest more. When I am sitting at my desk, initially it’s stiff to bend my knee, but after 10 minutes or so, my knee does seem to stretch into its comfort bend without my forcing it to. I just let the self-doubting thoughts in, and guilt myself into doing more than my knee wants to do. I need to have faith in the process and thank you so much for reminding me that my knee will get better with time and some TLC.Instead of stretching and working on your bend, why not just get up and do your daily activities without adding all the extra stuff. Working an hour a day on your bending is just keeping your knee inflamed. That is counterproductive to improving your bend. Why not try doing nothing extra for at least a month? I bet you will see improvement. Our members have found over and over again that this works for them.
You are right Jockette, I guess I let self-doubt overwhelm me at times. I want so badly to feel progress each week, and probably push too hard to reach the end goal. Having a knee revision and an MUA is so much harder to recover from than when I had my original TKR three years ago. I guess I need to stop comparing my results to Knee #1. What I have now, is so much different. and, I guess the good news is that I can do most normal activities now, other than foot over foot going downstairs. That one is still tough. Thank you for the reminders and encouragement. I love this recovery forum.I know my ROM still needs a lot of work and I put in at least an hour each day with focus on bending. Any feedback would be so helpful to me. Thank you.
Your ROM does not need a lot of work, what it needs is Time.
Regaining our ROM does not require forceful bending or painful exercises. That is counterproductive.
Regaining our ROM is more about Time than repetitions of a list of exercises.
Time to recover.
Time for pain and swelling to settle.
Time to heal.
Our range of motion is right there all along just waiting for that to happen so it can show itself.
In the general run of things, it doesn't need to be fought for, worked hard for or worried about. It will happen. Normal activity is the key to success.
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Are you able to walk outside yet?You know…In my heart, I know I need to cut back on the PT some, because I do this to myself in my own home gym. I’m always so worried that if I slow down, I will lose ground and I’ve worked very hard just to get my room to 97. But I think you’re right
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We can’t WORK into range of motion.
We have to RELAX and ease into it with gentle stretching.
I found the problem with PT was doing two days worth of exercise in a single 50 minute session.
well, in the Midwest, we’ve had a ridiculous amount of snow. This morning, temps were -4. High today is 12. I think walking outside, or even in a shopping mall might really help me to build my stamina back. Thanks for the nudge.Are you able to walk outside yet?You know…In my heart, I know I need to cut back on the PT some, because I do this to myself in my own home gym. I’m always so worried that if I slow down, I will lose ground and I’ve worked very hard just to get my room to 97. But I think you’re right
I found walking the best exercise for my new knee and being in the fresh air was good for my mood.
A good walk in the morning with a coffee out in a cafe at the half way point for a brief rest, then home for rest/ elevation/ice. Then a few gentle pilates style exercises in the afternoon before more rest/ ice. I used a rocking stool in the evening whilst watching TV.
I was lucky as my husband was prepared to do pretty much all of the household chores for a considerable period. I found standing for things like food prep one of the hardest activities for many months.
Try not to be hard on yourself. Pushing and forcing your knee is really counterproductive.
I think there are some very athletic types here who have a tendency to push beyond pain as this is something they have always done in training. It really isn't a good idea.
All really great suggestions. I need to use moderation and reset my expectations for a while. And I do need to remember that pushing my own knee into submission has resulted in some counterproductive results which then disappoint and frustrate me. A vicious cycle. So, thank you for sharing your thoughts. I’m going to do adjust my PT and see how things go.Speaking as one who recovered from numerous martial arts injuries years before navigating both TKRs in one year…
We can’t WORK into range of motion.
We have to RELAX and ease into it with gentle stretching.
This is in addition to reducing activities that create more swelling.
It’s crucial to alternate lesser activity days (none of the formal exercises, a less challenging walk in terms of time or distance) with more active days. The body must have its cellular recovery time.
My knees really liked taking walks. Loosened them up. A few minutes of gardening when weather permits - I used to set a timer.
For flexion: A few very slow heel slides kept within your comfort range and in time with your deep breathing. Then go just over the line, deep breathing into discomfort but never into pain.
I found the problem with PT was doing two days worth of exercise in a single 50 minute session. Our healing bodies do better, for those of us who do choose to exercise, if each set is kept to a low number of reps AND no more than one set in a session. For example at home I did no more than 10 of the very slow heel slides in the morning and then did them again in the late afternoon. At a PT session it’s perfectly acceptable to say “just the one set today, thank you!”

) That stiffness you’re feeling in the morning is your knee’s way of telling you to slow down and not try to push yourself to be normal. Your body is in charge and it will improve on its own timeline. If you do choose to slow down and just do normal activities for a few weeks, I’m betting you’ll notice a positive difference.