I have a bit of catching up to do because I went off to the coast to cure a case of pre op cabin fever. Yep, bedside commode over toilet works great. I STILL take my toilet seat riser with me to our coastal get away, but the toilets there are only 14 inches off the floor and I am tall. Then there was the hiking with a cane. Interesting. I do far better going up hill than down, probably due to my stationary bike rides. A "30 minute walk" was over an hour for me and painful, but the whole idea was to get out of my chair. In my personal opinion, I believe that a goal of hiking in Hawaii at six months is admirable, a good incentive and doable. You will have to train for it and see how things go. You can always go slow and have rest periods! Yes, you will be better in a year, but you will also be better in six months! A positive attitude is everything. As for pain meds, I am a believer, but then I am a nurse, who by profession, manages the heath care of over 60 elders. Pain is not a gain in my book. Pain is very individual and some people hurt more than others. Pain can sometimes cause crankiness or withdrawal from life. So, be prepared. Have your prescription from your doctor on hand and don't be afraid to take it.
Wishing you an uneventful, if not boring day on Tuesday! You've got this! You are amongst friends who care about you. Breathe in, breathe out. For DW, I know this is very hard for you, but you are the best! Relax, enjoy a little down time and let others help you. Breathe in energy, breathe out love.
Prayers of easy recovery coming your way.
Catherine