frogger
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I don’t know if my comments here will help you feel better or if my comments will be discouraging but here goes. I truly hope that you are going to continue to get better and that your operation turns out to be a complete success. I am basically twice your age but due to my anatomy I also developed a torn labrum due to FAI. Because of my age the doctors told me that I would be much better off to have a Total Hip Replacement instead of the type of operation that you had. They also told me that I would recover from the THA much quicker than I would from an arthroscopic labrum repair however it has been 13 months now and I am still having trouble with pain from my THA. I am currently going through therapy and so far it has not helped. I only post this to show you that some of us just don’t get over hip surgeries as quick as we think we should, I know people who have gotten over having both hips replaced a few months apart in way less time than it has been since my surgery. So keep doing what the doctor tells you to do but also be aware that something may be wrong that is causing you to take so long to recover.
Hey @golfer67 thanks for your thoughts. I read your entire thread. Really sorry to hear how difficult things have been for you after your surgery. It must be extremely frustrating that so many different types of problems also cropped up for you – such as the mistakes with the medication, the trip to the emergency room... if all of that happened to me I'd probably think I was cursed. I'm glad you are refusing to accept the pain and looking for new solutions. Really hope things improve for you.
A few thoughts on my side:
- The fact I'm only 35 and have these issues scares me quite a bit. I was very overweight during my teenage years and I bulged a disc in my lower back a couple of times during my 20's while trying to get fitter.
- With the COVID lockdowns and the surgery, my weight has gone up a bit again which can't help with the recovery. I've had regular back pain since the lockdowns started (I imagine because I just wasn't as active without my commute and whatnot). After the surgery the back pain has become more common and it feels more in tune with flare ups in my hip.
- Part of my mistake was that I lived with the pain for so long before finding the labrum tear and getting the surgery. I've heard before that there's a concept of "pain memory"; that the body can still remember the pain even after the biological problem has been fixed and there are specialist pain clinics where patients just talk about their pain, to try to help reset the memory. I'm not saying the pain isn't real, but I wonder if there's a kind of feedback loop that our bodies can't let go of. How long did you live with the FAI and labrum tear before getting surgery?