OR you're doing too much and your body is desperately trying to heal from the trauma of surgery, but is unable due to the continual irritation of healing soft tissues etc?
I totally agree!
And I agree that is way too early for strengthening.
I’m so sorry that your doctor does not have more compassion. Some doctors, while excellent with their surgery skills, just don’t understand recovery, other than text book “this is how we think it should go.”
I was white knuckling the table before he was done.
Been there, done this! My PT bent my knee so far, at one week post op, I thought it would explode. (I still had stitches!) that I did this and ended up damaging my shoulder and after a shoulder X-ray, the diagnosis was acute tendinitis. So extremely painful and so unnecessary.
If it was me, I would not allow this “massage” again.
Saying no to therapy - am I allowed to?
After PT I drove to a local community park two minutes away and sat in my car a cried for a good half hour.
I’m so sorry.

Maybe you should consider a different PT office with a more up to date protocol, or, stop going for a while to let your body relax and heal. You can always go back when you have healed more, and/or if you want to. By now you should know what PT type things you find helpful and you can do them on yiur own. No need to do the painful things. Just going about your regular day gives your healing knee all the mobility it needs. I call this Natural PT.