Guest viewing is limited

THR Jumping over a little prematurely, but...

Status
Not open for further replies.
Good morning @Nana757! Thank you for the great suggestion! I will start the new "exercise" today and see if I can work on my confidence. And, you are so right about those muscles being weak. In fact, I had a terrible time yesterday with muscle spasms in those muscles on top of the thigh (quads, I think?) Every time I would change position, especially getting in the car, here comes a cramp!

Yes, I'm still taking the pain meds on schedule, although I have moved down to the oxycodone now and it's very adequate.

Those macadamia caramels are divine! I think the macadamias have a little salt on them and when you bite into that chocolate, caramel, and salty nut, it's like everything that's delicious exploding - yes, I have a crazy sweet tooth!

Hope you have a wonderful day!
 
@Hip Hip Hooray! You are a wonderful resource of such great info! I loved hearing about how horses respond to the different injuries! Don't animals teach us so much? When I came home from the hospital, it was so obvious that my pooch knew I was "injured". And, she wanted to sniff around my operated leg every time she came to me those first few days. Of course, that wore off and, now, I have to watch her or she'll step right on that leg!

My mother battled breast cancer in the 70's and when it metastasized in the bone, she commented that pain was unlike any other. I broke my femur a few years later (encounter with a drunk driver),but I was young and had so little experience with physical pain that I didn't realize that then. The broken wrist this past July was without question the worst pain I've ever experienced, both before and after the surgical repair. I would take the hip replacement pain over that any day, not that I'd ask for it.

Your garden sounds wonderful! When I lived in So. Ca. I had the hardest time trying to figure out what to plant when! I finally met a neat lady at the So. Pasadena Farmer's Market who was a tremendous help, but the first few years I was planting tomatoes, and other veggies, too late because of my NC background with gardening. Imagine, I had a difficult time adjusting to a frost-free environment!

I do envy your dancer's legs and fit body! I let this hip go so long that my leg wouldn't straighten out and had been that way for several years after all the limping. My surgeon was surprised when he tried to straighten it before my surgery. He also told me it would be straightened in the OR. There was also a "knobby thingy" at the end of my femur from when I had the rod in it that they pretty much removed. He told me that was going to be an issue and if he couldn't get it out, I would not be allowed to weight-bear for 6-8 weeks, to avoid a fracture. However, he was able to remove it without any trouble from the muscles, etc. I've wondered how both of those factors have affected my recovery. I did have 6-8 weeks of PT before the surgery, hoping to get my let straight and be more prepared for the recovery, stronger, but I'm not sure I got where I hoped to.

More than anything, I went for the anterior because of the restrictions with the posterior. I was simply terrified, and unreasonably so, that I would accidentally break those restrictions and end up with a dislocation. I'm glad I made the choice I did, once I found a surgeon I liked well enough to do it. The dr. I was going to use in Ca was the head of joint replacement at Cedars and only did posterior and I put it off twice, so once I got moved back to Charlotte and liked a surgeon who did the anterior (had the reputation, bedside manner, and recommendations from a good friend who had him do both her hips), I was ready. I guess that choice ended up like it was supposed to for me. I'm one of those who didn't know when to stop with the research and I actually watched both a posterior and anterior surgery online. Didn't help with my fears! We live and learn. I’ll be in much better shape for my second hip! I can get back in the pool and it will be much easier to exercise in general before that one. And, I won’t go 10 years this time; soon as it gets bad, I’ll get it on the calendar.

Bless you for your caring input!
Take care,
Debra
 
@DeepBreath, I will stop making comparisons and just use the shared experiences for encouragement of what's to come. I am paying for yesterday, but not so much with soreness. I'm exhausted and sleepy. A dear friend is bringing over some tres leches cake from a Spanish restaurant we both like a lot this evening and I want to feel good and enjoy the company, so I'm giving in to it and napping a lot.

Remembering your toe touching makes me think that it's not the end of the world if I don't fully weight bear for an extra period of time. You've done just fine with that delay. I'm not going to worry about it, but I am going to do the counter exercise and see if more confidence comes. Great insight, @Nana757!

The NC coast is beautiful! I've only been to the Outer Banks once because it's so far from Charlotte (8 hrs.), but it's gorgeous out there. My grandparents retired on the SC coast, so our vacations were always down there and it's now all we know.

I think your fear before the surgery is very normal. At least, it makes me feel more normal because this was my 6th surgery and I had the same fear, have every time. Remember, I scheduled the hip replacement four times before I actually got to the OR. I froze a lot of meals, but not because of those thoughts. I was afraid Michael would let me starve or bankrupt me with all take-out meals!

Are you feeling ready for the 24th? I know your #2 is going to be easier, just from knowing what to expect. don't you think?

I need to apologize to you ladies for my lengthy posts! Didn't realize I was typing up a book. Please forgive me! I'll try to do better.

Take care,
Debra
 
@Southernbelle (Debra)
You never have to apologize or worry about long posts. That is what this forum is all about....sharing and unloading our deepest thoughts. Best thing is, what goes on in this forum, stays here.
One other thing I just thought about, when you mentioned your cramping. I started taking vitamin D3 (5000-10000 units) every day, 2 years ago when I broke my foot. I used to suffer with horrific cramping at night, in my feet and legs. Guess what? My cramps disappeared and I have yet to have one during my recovery. It still amazes me that I suffered with cramping since my teen years and no one could ever tell me how to get rid of them. Well, I'm here to say D3 is the magic potion!! I started with 10000 units a day and have recently dropped down to 5000. Food for thought...it may help with the cramping you're experiencing. BTW...it only took a week or so, before they started disappearing.
Happy recovery day to you!
Janice
:flwrysmile:
 
I just gor through reading your thread, and I think it's great you're writing so much! As for your pain, do whatever it takes for you to be comfortable. Heck, I'm still taking Oxycodone and I do need it for my pain! On the subject of getting your leg on and off the bed, it took me a long time to do that, and I had to just inch my operated leg slowly to my bed. If someone tried to help me do this faster, it hurt like heck. I got to the point where I just sort of snarled and told the nurses to let me do it by myself, LOL! Just keep remembering that each of us is different, we each have our own pain tolerance, we each have our own strengths and challenges. Go at YOUR pace and listen to your body as it tells you what it needs.
 
@Nana757, I think you nailed it! I didn't make the correlation between the Vit D deficiency and the cramping. I've taken Vit D3 for a long time, ever since I was diagnosed with a deficiency several years ago (not outside gardening and getting exercise with the bad hip = not getting enough natural D from the sunshine) and it was low again when my internist did lab work just before this surgery. I wasn't taking as much as you do, so, I'll double up. Thank you, Dr. Nana!
 
Good morning' @HipSurprise, Thank you so much for your kind words! I think I had some selective memory and only remembered the stories of those who were walking out of the hospital with no assistance after surgery and it clouded my expectations. This supportive group has done so much to rectify that and I'm incredibly grateful! I don't want to negate the value of frustration as a motivator, but I think I'm back on track, thanks to you all!

Hope you have a wonderful weekend!
Debra
 
Oh, my, what a surprise this morning! The antibiotic is hitting a lot more than just the infection! It's Bactrim DS and I awaken with a headache and I'm very shaky, terrible nausea. I managed to get down my Greek yogurt with a little fruit, but it wasn't easy (and it's my favorite breakfast). I have yet to take the am dose, can't bear the thought!
If I let the dr. know this, will he change it to a different one? I've never had this problem with antibiotics, but this is miserable! Any help is greatly appreciated.
 
So sorry to hear you are having a bad morning. I would think your DR will tell you to stop taking the Bactrum and prescribe something else. But, please give him a call and let him know what's going on with you...if you haven't already done so. Wishing you well Debra.
 
Thanks, @Nana757. I have called and answering service said if I don't hear from someone within 30 min. to please call back. So, at least there's a backup plan. : ) In fact, it's been about that long now...
 
I hope you're doing okay, @Southernbelle. I'm sorry the antibiotic isn't setting well with you and hope you got some answers for an alternate. Sending healing vibes your way. :)
 
Thanks so much, @DeepBreath! I saw a PA at my surgeon's group that Sat. and he changed the antibiotic, doing much better now. I'm a little draggy from either the infection or the drug, but this is much preferred to all the other symptoms.

Three weeks from surgery today! Yippee! I think I'm considerably more relaxed and trying to be more patient with my recovery. I'd like to be off of the walker, but I realize a year from now, it won't make any difference if I was or wasn't at this moment. I celebrated with a hair cut and a little refresher on my highlights, made me feel so much better! Nothing like a little pampering to make a girl feel like new! And, getting out for a couple of hours was very therapeutic, too. Then, a sweet neighbor came by for a visit, which was so nice. I'll finish up the day with some of that yummy chicken soup. Couldn't ask for more!

Life is good!
 
I realize a year from now, it won't make any difference if I was or wasn't at this moment.
Life is good!
Good for you, @Southernbelle! That is a terrific attitude. I'm going to keep that in mind when I have my blue blips. :)
I'm glad you got your antibiotic sorted and hope the infection and the draggy feeling are both gone soon.
Yaay about the pampering! Yes, that is certainly a lovely pick-me-up.

I hope you have a lovely evening and another great day tomorrow.:flwrysmile:
 
@DeepBreath , you let me know if you need me to remind you of that when those blues hit, I'm happy to! I have been caught unawares a couple of times by some unexpected tears and it's not a pleasant part of this recovery, is it? I can at least send you some Cavvie pics to cheer you a bit. If it's an especially tough time, I'll send in the macadamia caramels. : )

It was a nice evening, more of the chicken soup and of all things, we began watching a show we found on On Demand about surgeons at a hospital in NYC during the early 1900s called The Knick, just what I needed! It did make me appreciate how far we've come! I'll leave it at that, too much blood, etc. for me, but some interesting fact-based plot lines.Things like Typhoid Mary and how some of the advancements in medicine came about.

Have a happy day!
 
Awww, thank you, @Southernbelle. :) Yes, the blues do hit suddenly at times. I would welcome the Cavvie pictures (who could resist that?) and I'll definitely let you know if the Big Gun Macadamia Caramels are in order! :wink:
You're such a sweetie. :)

Chicken soup and an interesting show on television sounds like a wonderful evening to me.
I've never heard of that show. It does sound fascinating. I'm not sure I could hang in there if it's pretty bloody, but I can imagine it is so interesting to see the difference between medicine back then and now.
I am ever so grateful that we live in the time we do re: medical advancements. I read the articles about how far medicine has come in the last 100 to 150 years and it's just incedible to me!

I hope your day is going well and that you're feeling good today. :flwrysmile:
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Back
Top Bottom