amyk
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Hi All:
I wrote over a month ago about double knee replacement in late September. All this talk about pain is starting to make me mad! Here's why: In Dec 2005I had a total Ankle replacement by a well known hot doctor. On discharge he gave me a half a script of codeine and said the pain would be my guide for activity. Let me say that in fact ankles are a little scary and you can mess them up with too much activity. But please, this was not adequate. I have another OS who had done my husband's knee and my sister and mother's hips with great results (Also Arthroscopic on me earlier). I had been seeing him for Sinvisc shots on my knees and a semi-annual ankle shot of cortisone. I went to him and said "you know, I think this ankle guru might be an ----hole. Can you give me a prescription of hydrocodone in case?" which he did. He trusts me, I trust him completely. Turns out, I don't know what I would have done without it. The hip/knee OS has this attitude towards pain: GET RID OF IT, IT ISN'T HELPING ANYBODY DO ANYTHING BUT SUFFER.
I think my ankle man did a barely passable job (another story) on the ankle, and is a sadist about his patients' pain issues. He also said "I am not in the business of pain managment". What doeos that mean? He does the big money stuff and to hell with you later. Chaulk it up to concern over addiction. You know what I think? I think it's a pain in the neck for his office to administer because he is doing SO MANY procedures. So he says "no" to his suffering patients.
My situation with my knees and an empathetic doctor is that I am 9 weeks past double TKR. I went back to work after a month. I did well in therapy and did not hold back on anything. Because I had no pain in the hospital (high as a kite, but doing my excersizes), I came out with great motion. I stopped outpatient therapy last week and do it at home between workouts at the pool. I still take hydrocodone. I don't take eight a day like before. MAybe none one day, two another. Four on a really big walking or working day. But basically, not much. I am not addicted, do not think about it, and am feeling better every day. I am SORE when I stand up from sitting. Sore going down the stairs. I am sore at night, and I use dramamine or Advil PM to sleep, and SOMETIMES pain killer if it is bad. I really think it is because my doctor is willing to be my doctor UNTIL I AM WELL, that I have been able to work through this agressively.
I think a doctor who won't help with this is insensitive at best. When I got through with the ankle guy I went to my family doctor about it. (He works out of the same hospital) He actually told me that several post-op patients of his came to HIM, rather than the surgeon, for help with pain, because the surgeon just wouldn't give them anything. What a jerk.
I resented the fact that he didn't care and that he was willing to let me and his other patients suffer. I do not see how that is helpful. I would go to another doctor who IS willing. It doesn't mean you are doing a RUsh Limbaugh. It doesn't make you dishonest. Doctors are hired by you - you ultimately are paying them. I think people are too intimidated by these guys and get to thinking they are the answer to all questions. If a doctor isn't helping you, get another doctor! I don't see the point of suffering.
You are VERY brave and probably have a big pain threshold. But you deserve to be taken care of not cut off, for goodness sakes. Sorry for the diatribe but this subject really needs discussion. May I add, next time I go to anyone other than my knee doctor I will find out what their attitude is towards pain. I wish I had for the ankle. (I was 48 for the ankle)
Good luck and here's to a painless future!
I wrote over a month ago about double knee replacement in late September. All this talk about pain is starting to make me mad! Here's why: In Dec 2005I had a total Ankle replacement by a well known hot doctor. On discharge he gave me a half a script of codeine and said the pain would be my guide for activity. Let me say that in fact ankles are a little scary and you can mess them up with too much activity. But please, this was not adequate. I have another OS who had done my husband's knee and my sister and mother's hips with great results (Also Arthroscopic on me earlier). I had been seeing him for Sinvisc shots on my knees and a semi-annual ankle shot of cortisone. I went to him and said "you know, I think this ankle guru might be an ----hole. Can you give me a prescription of hydrocodone in case?" which he did. He trusts me, I trust him completely. Turns out, I don't know what I would have done without it. The hip/knee OS has this attitude towards pain: GET RID OF IT, IT ISN'T HELPING ANYBODY DO ANYTHING BUT SUFFER.
I think my ankle man did a barely passable job (another story) on the ankle, and is a sadist about his patients' pain issues. He also said "I am not in the business of pain managment". What doeos that mean? He does the big money stuff and to hell with you later. Chaulk it up to concern over addiction. You know what I think? I think it's a pain in the neck for his office to administer because he is doing SO MANY procedures. So he says "no" to his suffering patients.
My situation with my knees and an empathetic doctor is that I am 9 weeks past double TKR. I went back to work after a month. I did well in therapy and did not hold back on anything. Because I had no pain in the hospital (high as a kite, but doing my excersizes), I came out with great motion. I stopped outpatient therapy last week and do it at home between workouts at the pool. I still take hydrocodone. I don't take eight a day like before. MAybe none one day, two another. Four on a really big walking or working day. But basically, not much. I am not addicted, do not think about it, and am feeling better every day. I am SORE when I stand up from sitting. Sore going down the stairs. I am sore at night, and I use dramamine or Advil PM to sleep, and SOMETIMES pain killer if it is bad. I really think it is because my doctor is willing to be my doctor UNTIL I AM WELL, that I have been able to work through this agressively.
I think a doctor who won't help with this is insensitive at best. When I got through with the ankle guy I went to my family doctor about it. (He works out of the same hospital) He actually told me that several post-op patients of his came to HIM, rather than the surgeon, for help with pain, because the surgeon just wouldn't give them anything. What a jerk.
I resented the fact that he didn't care and that he was willing to let me and his other patients suffer. I do not see how that is helpful. I would go to another doctor who IS willing. It doesn't mean you are doing a RUsh Limbaugh. It doesn't make you dishonest. Doctors are hired by you - you ultimately are paying them. I think people are too intimidated by these guys and get to thinking they are the answer to all questions. If a doctor isn't helping you, get another doctor! I don't see the point of suffering.
You are VERY brave and probably have a big pain threshold. But you deserve to be taken care of not cut off, for goodness sakes. Sorry for the diatribe but this subject really needs discussion. May I add, next time I go to anyone other than my knee doctor I will find out what their attitude is towards pain. I wish I had for the ankle. (I was 48 for the ankle)
Good luck and here's to a painless future!
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