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@Wrangler I hope you are feeling better don.'t worry it will all be alright. I learned how to do it right when I came to bone smart. Not finding this great place till I was wore out , scared, so upset, in so much pain and just needing of care kindness. My husband was always there encouraging me but so lost in the confusion of trying to bend my stiff, very very swollen leg. They are right it gets easier once the swelling goes down and the more pushing and coaxing my leg the more everything got more swollen. Pt is alright to help with doing the exercises but not all pt understand what is involved how much rest is needed to let our poor knee heal and how much we need encouragement , and gentle treatment understanding.
I did it the wrong way first time around allowed my pt and others to push me so hard that my rom dropped from 85 which surgeon was happy with down to 50 everything hurt and the more told the rom would have to get better by pt the more I did pushing to get it back up. I was a mess, cried so much started out with a positive outlook no problem till first in home pt and that was when the stress and pain started. I did not gain more then 80-90 degrees for a long time and then just the other day when pt came to check me for my second knee replacement asked her to measure my other knee and like they said it did get better I now have 115 degrees without any idea it had gained . Rom is only needed to help you do things the more rom the easier to bend but it takes time not all recoveries are the same just as my recovery this time so far is nothing like my last recovery.
I had my left knee to think about so right surprised me so they are right just because it did not happen right away does not mean it did not happen was so excited. This time left hospital with 75 degrees on left knee. Taking it slower doing my exercises but not to the extent I did last time getting lots of little walks in back and forth to the commode which is on our main floor during the day . I have pain but no where near as much as last pacing myself and finding walking with the walker is less painful then sitting down.
I have this time around a good pt she is gentle and understands what I am willing to do in the way of not allowing aggressive pushing this time. I have explained to her why so hesistant about pt she was upset to hear that pt had cause this much anguish. She comes once a week and spends maybe 1/2 with me encouraging, helps me, in one week I have with little pushing just gentle stuff 7 degrees in my flex. Slow and steady wins the race and gentle care to you and your knee the way to get along your path the best way, not as upset this time around worried it would never be right needed to push to gain but that was wrong. Last surgery went back and forth 3 times a week so expensive and so exhausted this pt was not gentle and not at all encouraging.
My wound has also healed great, like night and day this recovery. So hard the first time around warned at the time of 2nd week by pt that unless bend gets better mua would happen. Not going to change this time staying strong on my way doing it the bone smart way wish I had found them last time earlier not till 3rd week but so happy to have this time all along the way. I told one pt it is easier said then done she had no idea what the pain level was for me mostly more then 10 such unnecessary reasoning and so painful.
Keep coming back you will find your path much better smarter to go easy then inflict pain that should not happen. I am so much further along this time even if it is mentally happier, enjoying the changes that have happened since surgery happy with progress.
hope it keep going this way if not it will come when it comes. hard to stay patient but be patient for yourself pt as they say works for the patient and need to listen to how the patient who is paying them feels so does the surgeon he works for you paid to do this surgery and part of the surgery is listening after the surgery he is paid to do this if something is wrong he needs to find out why.
Hoping not to loose rom but knowing it will come back just listen to your body it will tell you when you need to slow down. It has just went through lots of things during surgery. I know as this time they did not put me to sleep just my legs but I to my surprise was fully awake and wow thought with the sounds on the other side of the sheet that they were building something like a construction site.
It did not scare me actually felt absolutely nothing at all nothing but heard them working away it was kind of interesting did not think I could have did it this way but for some reason I was not asleep so knowing that lots went into doing this surgery. Care taken to make sure it was done right so why should they ask us after all of that to let anyone undo what they took time to put right. I won;t let anyone this time intimidate me, will not allow any thing that will do damage to my new knee or me.
Please be kind to yourself understand how major this surgery you have survived is and how far you have come you made it through. Wishing you a gentle recovery, say no when it is not gentle, take delight in all you have accomplished even though these may seem small still how much you have accomplished and how nice it will be when you are healed to have a strong knee which will take you places that were probably not so easy to get to before. All the best Holly