seems there are frequently unexpected things that happen, so I’m trying to plan for multiple possibilities.
I would question if this is so. It may seem that way because people who have complications or concerns tend to post here in order to get feedback From my experience most of the hip surgeries these days are routine, especially among those your age. The worst part for me was the apprehensiveness before the surgery. Recently I had my second hip replaced; Both of my surgeries were uneventful I am older than you, was told by OS after surgery that I have soft bones but went home same day. I wouldn’t say there was pain from either surgery but rather a soreness and discomfort. Aside from childbirth and wisdom teeth removal many decades ago, I had not had surgery of this magnitude either and was quite apprehensive both times. It sounds like you have done your due diligence and all sounds normal to me Agree that it is best afterward to not push PT, and to take it easy resting, icing, and elevating frequently. Icing is perfect for soothing any discomfort and swelling. I got by with only Tylenol both times, as I am not keen on taking drugs unnecessarily. I feel certain that you will be fine and very relieved after surgery. All the best to you!