Ducky
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Aloha! I'm a 36 year old woman living in the middle of no where with a scardy service dog and three bossy cats. I was diagnosed with bilateral protrusio acetaboli earlier this year. When I was 18 and in Army basic training, I started having pain in my right hip marching and running and sit ups were torture! The pain got worse throughout my service (duh, I ran, did road marches carrying 100+ lbs on my back, carried full grown men on my shoulder, jumped out of helicopters...) and eventually during a required road march, my right leg went totally numb around mile 6 of a 12 mile ruck. That is when the Army offered me a medical out, which I took after 4 years of service. After about a year of doing nothing, I felt much better and was able to lead a mostly normal life. I even picked up tae kwon do and kick boxing The pain in my right hip slowly got worse until my early 30's, when now it seems like it's getting worse more rapidly, not just in my right hip anymore, but both. I no longer work, the pain to wage ratio just wasn't good enough to make me continue working. I am in pain all day long, I struggle some days to do basic things, stairs are like cruel obstacles put there by evil squirrels (seriously, they taunt my dog, they are pure evil!), and sleeping? Oi! I consider waking up 5 times in pain in a night a "good" night!
Until this diagnosis, I have been most ignored by my medical care providers. I have used the VA since I got out of the Army. The Army categorized my hip pain as "generalized lower back pain" so the VA staff didn't try very hard. In 14 years I was sent to physical therapy once (twice if you count the one time in the Army!). Not that it helped, but that it's an option to try to find the problem. I finally asked my primary care provider to see an ortho doc and she actually got mad at me! Said I was using her, making my own diagnosis. Luckily, I got the referral. The ortho doc was a hip specialist and was able to diagnosis me rather quickly. I was given a cortisol shot in my right hip which did nothing for me. Then I was told that it would be AT LEAST 15-20 years before the VA will give me a hip replacement. I asked my (new) primary care provider why and got the "you're too young" and the "replacements only last 20 years" spiel. All I was given for pain meds is meloxicam and flexeril. The VA is afraid of people getting hooked on narcs, so they avoid prescribing them. Yay.
So now, unless I win the lottery and can afford to get a bi lateral hip replacement (or whatever is the new surgery for my condition) from civilian doctors, I get to just sit and wait until some government bureaucrat decides I can have the surgery. This scares me. I don't have a clue what to expect. I have researched the condition but because it's so uncommon, there really isn't more than medical journals to read. I was a medic in the Army and was in school to be a physician assistant, but some of the jargon is above me! And from what I have found, most of the information is in the diagnosis, not the long term symptoms. Will I eventually be unable to walk? Will the pain continue to increase? Will I pinch my nerves more? Will it affect my knees?
I was told to exercise by swimming or using an elliptical trainer. I can't afford a car and live in the boonies, so going to a pool is out. I was thinking of buying an elliptical trainer, but am scared it might cause pain!
I'm also training my own service dog. She knows quite a bit of stuff already, but since I haven't a clue what is in my future, I'm at a loss as to what else to teach her. Should I teach her to take off my socks? To help me pull up my pants from the floor? Are these going to be issues?
I would have the hip surgery tomorrow if I could! I don't care if they would have to go in and do it again in 20 years, at least then I could lead a productive life for the next 20 years instead of becoming more crippled.
Any suggestions, first hand experiences, information, anything at all is greatly appreciated!
Until this diagnosis, I have been most ignored by my medical care providers. I have used the VA since I got out of the Army. The Army categorized my hip pain as "generalized lower back pain" so the VA staff didn't try very hard. In 14 years I was sent to physical therapy once (twice if you count the one time in the Army!). Not that it helped, but that it's an option to try to find the problem. I finally asked my primary care provider to see an ortho doc and she actually got mad at me! Said I was using her, making my own diagnosis. Luckily, I got the referral. The ortho doc was a hip specialist and was able to diagnosis me rather quickly. I was given a cortisol shot in my right hip which did nothing for me. Then I was told that it would be AT LEAST 15-20 years before the VA will give me a hip replacement. I asked my (new) primary care provider why and got the "you're too young" and the "replacements only last 20 years" spiel. All I was given for pain meds is meloxicam and flexeril. The VA is afraid of people getting hooked on narcs, so they avoid prescribing them. Yay.
So now, unless I win the lottery and can afford to get a bi lateral hip replacement (or whatever is the new surgery for my condition) from civilian doctors, I get to just sit and wait until some government bureaucrat decides I can have the surgery. This scares me. I don't have a clue what to expect. I have researched the condition but because it's so uncommon, there really isn't more than medical journals to read. I was a medic in the Army and was in school to be a physician assistant, but some of the jargon is above me! And from what I have found, most of the information is in the diagnosis, not the long term symptoms. Will I eventually be unable to walk? Will the pain continue to increase? Will I pinch my nerves more? Will it affect my knees?
I was told to exercise by swimming or using an elliptical trainer. I can't afford a car and live in the boonies, so going to a pool is out. I was thinking of buying an elliptical trainer, but am scared it might cause pain!
I'm also training my own service dog. She knows quite a bit of stuff already, but since I haven't a clue what is in my future, I'm at a loss as to what else to teach her. Should I teach her to take off my socks? To help me pull up my pants from the floor? Are these going to be issues?
I would have the hip surgery tomorrow if I could! I don't care if they would have to go in and do it again in 20 years, at least then I could lead a productive life for the next 20 years instead of becoming more crippled.
Any suggestions, first hand experiences, information, anything at all is greatly appreciated!