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A friend of my brother-in-law told me about this site. I have had 3 surgeries on my rt. knee. Tuesday will be my 1st replacement. This site seems like a good place to chat and give and receive support. I am both excited and nervous. Anything has to be an improvementover the last year.
 
Welcome to the site! I just finished going through all the procedures to have my surgery in 4 weeks. I'm having both knees done and I agree------I have messed with my knees for 12 years and the last two years have been awful for me. I agree---get it done if it is taking away from the quality of life you should be enjoying. Best of luck and please let us know how you are. My thoughts and prayers will be with you.
Jayne
 
Thank you, Jayne. Yes, I am nervous although I will not let my family know that. I have not even had a life for the last year. I go to work then come home and prop up the leg to reduce swelling. It is not fun!
 
Can anyone out there give me some insight on what to expect Tuesday? I am 51 years old and have my 1st grandchild. I really want to be able to play with her this summer. Is that a realistic goal?
 
It is ok to et your family know you are nervous, you will need them, they will make it better and here well I dont know what to say...these people are fantantastic. When ever you are down you can count on everyone here for support..so welcome and I hope everything goes terrific for you.........Kim
 
A friend of my brother-in-law told me about this site. I have had 3 surgeries on my rt. knee. Tuesday will be my 1st replacement. This site seems like a good place to chat and give and receive support. I am both excited and nervous. Anything has to be an improvementover the last year.

Welcome to our little part of the world. That is exactly how I felt with my first TKR surgery. Just give it about 2-3 months and you will be feeling so much better and playing with your grandchild.
I am having my second this Thursday and I pray that it goes as well as the first one about 5 months ago. I am starting to get butterflies.
Best wishes for a speedy recovery.
Hugs, Kathy
 
Hello and welcome,
First of all my family was a great source of support while I went crazy waiting for my surgery. I was even trying to talk my husband into going home the morning he took me to the hospital. As for what you can expect you may need to talk to the Dr. or his nurse as each person and each Dr are different. I am 3 months post and have just started to venture out by myself. I had some nerve damage which really slowed my PT. but I feel I am on the mend and hope to play with my grandchildren this summer also. As I am sure the others on this sight will tell you there are several things you need to make sure of. Take pain meds do not wait until you may need them take them on time. I made sure I had the extra bedroom made up for me. With a TV , books and a phone. You may not sleep all night and you may be more comfortable. I watched tv at 3 am a lot. I read the post on this sight and learned a lot that I was not told at the hospital and it made the whole thing a lot easier. Good luck and let us know how you are doing. Joyan
 
Hi, Beast...welcome to the forum. I think you will find an whole new life after your knee replacement. I won't lie to you. The first couple of weeks in recovery can be a challenge, but if you were in pain before your surgery, you will notice an different kind of pain afterwards....one that you instinctively know is a "healing" pain that will subside eventually. Please post any time you have a specific question or concern....or just to say hi. We will be here to support you.
 
I am having a tkr on Wednesday and I am a complete and total mess. I have so much anxiety that small children run away when they see me!!!
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Today I went to the hospital for my pre op---mostly they wanted to make sure I had insurance. Then the nurse was talking to me and I felt like I was at the end of a tunnel looking at her. My blood pressure was 125-82--one of the highest reading of my life!!! I could feel my blood beating in my ears!!

They took me to see the rooms which are actually very nice--but they are mostly semi private--I started to cry! The nurse asked me and when I told her that I HATE the noise of tv, she actually arranged for me to have one of the private rooms. So nice--and I felt so out of it.

When I went to see the pt, she opened up a pamplet with a picture of an articifical knee--it was huge and had a big spike in the middle of it--I almost fainted!!! I told her to put that thing away and she thought I was kidding, until she looked into my eyes!!

So, now I am sitting her wondering what to do---run for the hills or go into the hospital so that I can be in pain and be stuck in the house for two weeks. Then go through a long and painful rehab. What if I can't ski at the end of all this-

Obviously I am totally neurotic right now---my anxiety level is out of sight. I hope that I can last through Wed and don't bolt.
 
Of course total knee replacement is frightening. Although I've been rather gung ho about the whole thing, I did manage to have a major breakdown one night in anticipation of the surgery. All of my fears came spilling out. I kept my husband up half the night. But once I faced those fears, I realized I could not live my life with the pain of osteoarthritis. I knew the pain of knee replacement would be fleeting. The pain of osteoarthritis is permanent.

You know what? I want to live my life. I hadn't anticipated having my knee replaced at 45, but that was the reality of the situation. Now I'm about two and a half weeks past the surgery. I have not one regret. I won't lie and say this process is an easy one. Still, why would I want to live the remainder of my life with my bones rubbing on one another and causing me grief? This surgery is, in many ways, a lifesaver.

As I got closer to my surgery day, one of my surfing friends told me to "Make the drop, eyes wide open." For some reason, those words in particular resonated with me. And I did what he suggested. I let go of my fear and actually went into surgery without much trepidation.

Truthfully, surgery is the easy part. One moment you're awake. The next moment you're in your room. The recovery is where the journey truly begins. Even that isn't bad. Take your pain meds. (Famous last words from someone who stopped taking them after about 10 days.) Let your body heal. Embrace therapy.

You will be glad you made the drop.
 
Ah ski girl. Look honestly there will be ups and down,mostly ups. It will not be a breeze .if you take the medicine like you are supposed to (i didnt, didnt want the stuff) but boy i learned its, ice, elevate, pain med. excatly like he tells you to) .ya know for a while. But it will be woth it. Enjoy that time to be pampered and just relax...It will be ok..I was scared straight also. Post anytime good things or any questions you might have. chances are someone here went thru it. And you will find yourself giving advise to someone else who is scared soon. Hang in there post anytime. Good luck...Kim
 
Kim, I love your Avatar! How are you doing?

Skigirl, Beast, Jayne and all the others waiting for the op......O.K., the waiting is the worst thing. Once you get to THE day it's a breeze. I'm in the UK but from what I've read on this forum the experience is the same in your part of the world. Once you get to the stage where the anaesthetist is there, you're out of it for as long as it takes, and you wake up and it's all over! I can remember coming round and seeing the surgeon wandering around looking for his packed lunch. Just remember that for the surgeons it's their job - for them your knee is one of hundreds that they sort out. For us it's a once-only job. Well, for me it's twice as I've got two new knees.

I'm two and a half weeks post-second TKR, and have just sorted out the kitchen, vacuumed the lounge, dining room and conservatory, cleaned the bathrooms, and am now having my mid-morning cup of tea (so English!). I've lost the pain I've had for years, I can stand up without pain, I've got two straight legs for the first time in years, and I actually feel taller because of it!
I'm moving comfortably around the house without aids, and feel as if I could probably do the same outside already - but I will use the crutches for a while longer just to make sure I don't fall.

I bumped into an old friend in town yesterday who asked me why I was on crutches. When I told her that I'd had two TKRs, one six months ago, one two weeks ago, she said it was something she needed but was putting it off. That was me a year ago - putting it off. However, I was forced into having something done when an osteophyte broke off and jammed itself into my knee joint - boy, was that painful! I then had an arthroscopy and consequently the two TKRs.

I wish I'd had them done before as I've missed out on lots of things. I'm now aiming for my new goal - a Mediterranean cruise in September which involves, among other things, roaming over the ruins at Pompeii, and climbing up to some very old monasteries in Greece. Both require good strong legs, and I'm sure I'll be able to cope.

I'm 66, a retired teacher, and making the most of life! I now feel that I can start a new stage, be more adventurous and do more than I've been able to do for some time.

So, if your experiences are anything like mine, you'll soon be 'on the other side'. The first couple of weeks are the worst, for me it was trying to do straight leg lifts (I can do them easily now). Just make sure that you take the pain meds, ice and elevate. The pain is easily controllable and, as I have learned, and as you will find other on this forum tell you, if you don't take them then you get pain and swelling and you can't do the exercises - so you don't progress.

All the best to you all. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
 
Every good wish is being sent to all of you in the waiting room, it really is an anxious time, but it will be over and done in no time and you will be working on your recovery.

Good luck,
 
To all of you who have responded to my plea...thank you so much!!! I know that I will continue to have some anxiety but, I also now know that I can come here and get support from people like ME! Thank you all so much for helping to ease me. I will definitely keep coming back for more. I will keep everyone posted.

Sounds like I am a lucky one on the hospital stay....I will be a member of the "Joynt Camp." The entire 3rd floor of the hospital is set up for knee and hip replacement patients. All rooms are private and we all have group PT twice aday while in hospital (therapy room is also on this floor). I have already met all my fellow campers and we all arrive for surgery either Mon. or Tues. The whole process seems to be very well organized.

Oh well, I guess now all I do is wait!
 
Skigirl - can you ski now? If not, why are you angsting about "what if you can't ski afterwards"! You'll be no worse off than you are now, now will you? And you'll be without pain (eventually!).

And beast, you sound like you're already half way there! Soon we'll be cheering you on in the 'other side'.
 
Wow stives that is amazing....Haha I do rememeber the lunch Lol .I dont know how you do it. You are my hero ........Lol...............And Ski we will be here for you after words, try not to worry it will be done before you know it. Best wishes ....Kim
 
Hi to all in the waiting room and a huge thanks to those on the other side for all the encouragement. You guys are terriffic!
My BTKR is May 18th an I'm finally starting to face the reality. Got through the joint class and the pre op visit without a tremor, but now that I'm off the alieve and I'm really feeling the pain again I know how quickly this whole adventure is aproaching.
In addition, my husband has some medical issues to deal with, is trying to start a new business, and is working full time--so I'm alone a lot and have been tending toward a pitty party some times. Boo hoo ;-)
Time to put on my big girl panties and get on with it. Like you, Stives, I've got a cruise to look forward to, and that will keep me on track I hope.
Sorry for all the complaining.
Blessings and Happy Mother's Day to all the Moms,
Irene
 
Stives....that's interesting about the different dates for Mother's Day. I had no idea it was at different times....and no clue why that would be.

Irene....no pity parties now...that's what WE'RE here to help with! You'll be so happy and now you just need to concentrate on that cruise!
 
Irene,
In my Daughter's kitchen above her desk she has to signs that always bring a smile to my face.
1. Put on your big girl panties and deal with it.
2. Who are these Children and why do they keep calling me Mom?

Boy o Boy have I been there LOL
I have 2 in my Kictchen all so that make me smile.
1. What part of "NO" don't you understand?
2. 3 wise men?? You got to be kidding.
Life is a hoot if you just go with it.
My Hubby has medical issues too. But
he works at the School and runs his own bussiness
he is like that little bunny that keeps on going and going.
The 18th is comming up fast. Will you be staying
at the Hospital longer for PT or going to a special
place for your PT? You won't be going home untill
you can get around on your own will you?
 
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