Now you have me curious, who is your OS? I opted for Rothman for my hips and felt so fortunate to live in an area where I had multiple options to get the best care. Penn is awesome, for sure, that is good to hear!
Farm life is something else, isn't it? Trying to recover when you've got dozens of mouths to feed! Luckily, the grass will be up here in a matter of days, so that will lighten our load exponentially.
Yes, indeed! But there's really nothing else like it. I loved raising my sons on a farm. Plus I loved growing up on a farm, a horse farm no less. There's nothing better for a little girl than growing up with her horses.
It's crazy how these hip/knee surgeries are so incredibly violent - I do wonder how long it took from someone getting the idea to replace an entire major joint, to actually getting in the OR to do it. Sounds like something a lunatic would dream up!
True, but can't think of another way to "disengage the joint"

to add in a new one. Boy, yes, I can just imagine that first conversation about a joint replacement. Probably performed on cadavers for the most part, initially.
So, here's the thing. Nobody here is against a MUA, they can work wonders. It's been observed over the years that maybe sometimes they are done too soon. Soft tissues can take forever to heal. You sound like someone who doesn't have edema but the tissues could be "weepy" and inflamed, regardless.
You have your rock star surgeon and have made your decision so we offer you nothing but good wishes, plus will be rooting for you all of the way.
Just know that you will still have those very same weepy and inflamed tissues that will need to recover. They will recover, especially if you don't try to rush it. If achieving some better ROM helps you to get around then it will be worth it for you. Like the light at the end of the tunnel.
What rotten luck that your farm hand is injured and soon to be on the recovery list, too. Rats!
So, is there anyone else to pitch in? It's rather early into the season, in terms of crops, etc. maybe there's another farm neighbor to help? Or even a high school student? I would love to see you feel as little pressure as possible in the weeks following your procedure. You husband too, for that matter.