Hi Small - I do understand about the not being sure if it's time for #2 yet but since my right hip is actually in worse shape than the left, it was only a matter of time. I was completely unsure about having the spinal but after a lengthy conversation with the anesthesiologist, I went with it. He promised me he would go to a general if I showed any signs of being aware. He must've given me a very hefty dose of the spinal because I was still numb several hours after the first PT session was to take place (fine by me)!! I also did mine as an outpatient and was home within 12 hours of surgery time. My husband rarely left my side for the next 5 days because he was afraid I'd fall (lesson learned from foot surgery 8/17). We are planning on outpatient again but always have the choice to spend the night if needed. I have requested the same surgical/nursing staff if at all possible because they just plain out ROCKED. I had PT this morning so we've planned out my strategy for the next 4 sessions to strengthen that left leg/hip as much as possible. I was telling him about this forum and how helpful I found it to be and wished I had found it BEFORE my first THR. Live and learn. So glad to connect on here with you (& others).
Also, not sure what your regular choice of clothing is for comfort but I am a running shorts & tshirt type of gal. The running shorts have the built in liner so you don't have to worry about "layers". I bought a size up from normal and they fit just fine over the bandaging (and were easy for my husband to help me with). I wore Keen sandals for shoes (slip on with velcro straps) - they are breathable and comfy (again, my husband could help get them on and fasten them). I hope that may answer any question you have about what to wear (I had so many questions about that and no one could answer other than "don't wear heels the day of surgery" from the surgical staff!! Seriously, it was printed in their booklet twice so clearly there was a need for that!) Hahahahaha, I still get a chuckle out of that one and joked that I would have to rethink what I wore that day because I had my "pole dancing shoes" laid out ready to wear with my running shorts!