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Stanj

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I check in once in a while but seldom post. This message is to encourage others who might be apprehensive about the recovery and life after THR.

I am 1 year and 2 weeks out from right side THR and ran into my first medical restriction last week. Actually it was exactly what I was hoping for. Recently my girlfriend got the wild idea that we were both to start bungy jumping since there was new 200 foot tower in town. Excuses of being needed at work, too young to die and not having my life insurance paid up or having her name on it did not seem to impress her. Finally I remembered that some long time in the foggy misty past I had a hip replacement. I called my OS who I had not talked to in 8 months to ask him, with Julia on the extension(she knew I was trying to weasel out). He listened and sort of laughed( you could "hear" his eyes rolling), than said it was OK if I really had to but if it were him he would avoid bungy jumping and advised me to not to either. I pressed him for a more definitive answer and hinted that I would not be too heart broken if he prohibited it. He caught on and said it was medically ill-advised. That was good enough for me and I was able to put the blame for not jumping from that outrageous height on his wise council. That disappointed Julia but she was not quite done with the craziness and for my birthday June 13 she took me skydiving.......that was not prohibited. We both jumped before but not together before so it was supposed to be romantic.....

Well, that is an indication of the fullness of life-after-hips. Like so many say; "I wish I had done it years ago(the THR not the bungy jumping). Otherwise, no restrictions, even that one, albeit welcome, was lukewarm. All the warnings, predicted dire consequencies, and well meaning advice to "settle down" was unneeded....no pain from day 1, just life as normal if my life ever did have any normalcy to it. Here is one strong vote for getting it done outside the US medical system.

My new GF is an ex-Olympic gymnast who remains in top shape and intends to have me follow her lead. My idea of exercise was and will probably always mean dancing in clubs and discos until 6am a couple times a week. At least Julia has taken up that one habit of mine, in addition to her formal training sessions. Saturday I turned 60 and had a large party thrown in my honor at a local club where the DJ created a great set just for me and my group. Although 30-40 years older than anyone else in the club or my group, no one could or keep up with my pace on the dance floor...I had 43 years of practice over them so it was unfair competition.
My advice to those following me in getting their hip done; Stay active and optimistic, two traits that have very positive rewards in recovery and life in general.......
 
Hi, Stan....so good to hear from you again and know you are doing well. Sky diving, huh....Wow!!! I am glad you passed on the bungee jumping, though. Somehow the idea of jerking your new hip joint like that doesn't seem to make any sense.

Sounds like a fabulous 60th birthday party. You should post some photos of all the dancing!

Let us hear from you again now and then!!!
 
My doctor said i could do anything except sky diving....I imagine bungey jumping comes under the same category. I don't feel deprived!
Rachel
 
Great post Stanj,
I am only one week behind you and except for my love of running, I do not have any restricitions. I'll have to ask about bungee jumping just to keep the doc smiling:hehe:
judy
 
Not ALL of us have a death wish! Whatever turns you on. Stan!! I'll stick to dancing and ground activities!!! My family wouldn't be happy otherwise....and neither would. I. !!! Good luck and be SAFE!!!,
 
Wow very nice story....60 is the new 30 ya know....Habby Birthday, and congradulations.....You keep going ,and going....you'll always pass up those 30-40..Im 40and couldnt do what you do...lol.........Thanks for posting a great story..........
 
Wow what a wonderful outlook on life. Keep on doing, you sound like a very upbeat person, which is the only kind to be.
Happy late Birthday!!!!!!!!!!
 
60, whatever, i want to be you. i'm 36 and once my hips are done i'd like to at least be stiff competition. thanks for comming back and sharing.
monique
 
Still not taken the (other) plunge yet, Stan? I see you still have a girlfriend! As I recall you were the first person to raise the 'S' subject on here!

Good to see you.
 
Still not taken the (other) plunge yet, Stan? I see you still have a girlfriend! As I recall you were the first person to raise the 'S' subject on here!

Good to see you.
Hi Hipsters and Kneesters...thank you VERY much for the well wishes and great comments. I was really expecting to be confined to an old folks home by 60 when I was younger but was shocked to realize I think no differently, have the same sense of aesthetics and beauty as when 25 and still like the same women I always did. The only change is the bewilderment that comes over me when looking in a mirror, trying to figure out who that old guy is and what is he doing in my bathroom.
I solved that problem by taking down the mirror.
Luckily I live in a region that appreciates an interesting story of life and conversation more than cute and hot so finding lots of young people who want to share their time with me is the true secret to a youthful outlook. Most of my close friends are all between 20 and 28, almost all women of great appeal, highly educated and fun loving. That will keep you feeling young.....unless you look in a mirror!

Yes, Josephine, I do have a GF but a different one, the prior one is still a close friend but there is just a difference in lifestyle....she liked to lead a quiet home life and was not excited by loud music or parties, or being active except she was an exceptional swimmer who could swim at a good pace for 5km-10km just for warm up. She finally realized I was too young to settle down and live a sedentary life she thought was optimum. She is 40. My new GF is also happy with home life but also very fit and athletic, an ex-Olympic gymnast who still works out intensely 3-4 times a week, and regularly is mistaken for 27. Julia just turned 40. She is the only woman I've found who can keep up the pace on the dance floor....except Latin dance where she is far superior in both skill and endurance than me
Here is a photo I took this spring when we were visiting a water park:


So overall, I am pretty lucky to have a great city to live in, good health, and great friends....and a bionic hip that was cheap and pain free.

Maybe this Julia will be the one to make me want to settle down myself....but definitely not slow down... She is very intelligent, very attractive and very very. Although was in sports very seriously she still managed to get degrees with honors in chemistry and accounting, and speaks 4 languages.
My rules for an engaged and exciting life is to kill your TV and any other passive pastimes. Do life, don't just watch it.

People who continuing working all their life are in better mental and physical shape. The professions that have no retirement age normally have participants who are active and creative long past their retired friends; artists, writers, performers,scientists, etc generally have lower rates of dementia and physical impairment that seems to overtake people who stop being actively involved with work and creativity.
Talk with you again soon....
Stan
 
Hi Stan,
As I recall we sort of went in about the same time and both of us did real good with the surgery. I can't believe you would even consider BJ that scares me to even say or watch. But I don't even like swings Lol.
Haven't set a date for my left hip yet, doing some dental work now and then the hip after. Hope it goes just as great as the first replacement. Good to hear from you I haven't been here in awhile but it's nice to drop in now and then..
Sunshine
 
Thank you all for the encouraging comments!! I have not checked the forum for a few days because being very busy with work and a bit of play.
I told my GF that I posted her photo hoping that she would not be upset....I had to explain it was for medical science/education/giggles. The stupid explanation apparently was not needed, she said "that is fine, I work pretty hard to stay in shape and it is nice to know it's appreciated". Well, I know one 60 year "old" man who certainly appreciates her efforts;>)

I am in the tourism business here, shore excursions for cruise ship passengers coming to the Baltic Sea region. One of our clients from last year knew about my hip replacement and asked for some advice. She had a similar problem but was planning on doing something about sooner than I did into its progression. After weighing her options, too young for medicare, too many assets to get assistance and too old for reasonable rates so no health insurance. She had it for years with her employer, a large insurance company, but the employer dropped their policy(no, they did not work in the health insurance field). After 20 years with the company was in a bind. We worked out the details for her and her oldest daughter to come here for the replacement using the same doctor I used but in a more modern smaller hospital. She had it done in early May and is doing great. I encouraged her to join this group but she is not interested in the internet and has no computer at home.....she reads. The 20 year old daughter did print out lots of threads for her mom. We rented them a nice city center apartment and a housekeeper, and even during her recovery she was able to tour and sight-see. She was here 17 days, the last 5 was just playing tourist...a slow walking tourist but walking with crutches pretty well. I think that great amount of walking I did out of necessity really helped me recover quickly. I had to figure out ways of shopping, putting on socks, doing laundry and all the normal things from the first day out of the hospital. And boy, did I walk. The closest real grocery store is 1/3 mile, my office is 1/3 mile in the opposite direction so most days I was walking over a mile even before going out for specific exercise. The walking might have been the reason I had no swelling in my legs.

Good luck with continued rapid recovery everybody.......I'll check in from time to time
Stan
 
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