Hello all, my surgery date is in less than two weeks. Urged my husband to read the materials the med center sent me, before my pre-op appt. and class this Thursday so if he has any questions I can ask them then. He finally told me he's not going to read the materials because it will just worry him more. He is way freaked about anything that could go wrong and finds the recovery rules and time daunting. Though I will have other people around to help some, he is going to be my primary caretaker and I really was expecting better from him. Anyone else going through this?