@Heatherscott
Welcome to BoneSmart, glad you joined us!

You are very very early in this yearlong+ recovery, though most start to feel much much better around 3-4 months.
What a shock it must have been to suddenly have a hip replacement with no preparation.
Everything you are experiencing is normal, the pain, not being able to sleep in your bed, needing a Zimmer frame, slow to the bathroom, poor appetite, inability to concentrate to read or watch TV, will get better.
On the positive side I’m pretty much off painkillers, my walking has improved greatly and my physio is pleased with my levels of mobility.
Sounds like you are doing well, even though it does not feel feel like it.
Improvement moves at a glacial pace in the early days, one day soon you will find your self walking without your Zimmer frame, and wonder how did I get here, and how am I going to get back.
Please post your surgery date, a moderator will add it to your signature for you. Having the exact date will help us properly advise you. Thanks!
someone please tell me this will all improve!
Your hip will improve in its own good time, patience will be needed.
Keep us posted on how you are doing.
Here are the Hip Recovery Guidelines, the articles are short and will not take long to read, and should answer most of your questions.
Hip Recovery: The Guidelines
1.
Don’t worry: Your body will heal all by itself. Relax, let it, don't try and hurry it, don’t worry about any symptoms now, they are almost certainly temporary
2.
Control discomfort:
3.
Do what you want to do BUT
a. If it hurts, don't do it and don't allow anyone - especially a physical therapist - to do it to you
b. If your leg swells more or gets stiffer in the 24 hours after doing it, don't do it again.
4.
PT or exercise can be useful BUT take note of these
5.
At week 4 and after you should follow this
6.
Access these pages on the website
Pain management and the pain chart
Healing: how long does it take?
Chart representation of THR recovery
Dislocation risk and 90 degree rule
Energy drain for THRs
Pain and swelling control: elevation is the key
Post op blues is a reality - be prepared for it
Myth busting: on getting addicted to pain meds
Sleep deprivation is pretty much inevitable - but what causes it?
BIG TIP: Hips actually don't need any exercise to get better. They do a pretty good job of it all on their own if given half a chance. Trouble is, people
don't give them a chance and end up with all sorts of aches and pains and sore spots. All they need is the best therapy which is walking and even then
not to excess.
We try to keep the forum a positive and safe place for our members to talk about their questions or concerns and to report successes with their joint replacement surgery.
While members may create as many threads as they like in the majority of BoneSmart’s forums, we ask that each member have only One Recovery Thread. This policy makes it easier to go back and review the member’s history before providing advice, so please post any updates or questions you have right here in this thread.