Robert, my heart goes out to you. It does not seem like you were prepared for what was coming.
I had a hip replacement in June. Althjough the need for the replacement was a shock, I was lucky to find this great group of people in April. I knew it would hurt, knew about my 3 months of restrictions (for hippies), still was not ready for that first step out of bed, or actually trying to move my 1,000pound leg off the bed or even a millimeter.
It does get better, the worst gets better quickly. I was so swollen, both legs, I would have called 911 if not for this group. I gained 24 pounds . Rest assured, I was shocked that most of that was gone in 2 weeks.
Welcome to the gang here.
Logging on was the hightpoint in my day when I got up.
Judy