Hi everyone, I’m so glad I found this forum. I just got the call to schedule my RTHR and I was shocked because I expected a longer wait time. I am trying to learn as much as I can so I can be mentally prepared for the surgery and have an idea of what to expect during recovery.
Any moms out there who have had surgery or waiting? My biggest concerns are how to manage the kids post-op. We have a 3.5 year old and the youngest is turning 1 at the end of the month. My husband will take some time off work and do the hands on care. And my mom plans to stay at our place as much as possible. How long will it be until I am able to care for them? We can’t afford for my husband to be off work for 12 weeks. My mom is retired and is willing to help as long as we need, but 12 weeks is a big commitment and I feel bad asking for that. My sisters have offered to take turns to give my mom a break but we’re not sure what the Covid restrictions are going to look like in BC and if that will even be allowed. Currently we are limited to our individual households, which is just me, hubby and our 2 kids. Any advice is appreciated. Reading the threads has already answered some of my other questions and reduced my anxiety a little.
Any moms out there who have had surgery or waiting? My biggest concerns are how to manage the kids post-op. We have a 3.5 year old and the youngest is turning 1 at the end of the month. My husband will take some time off work and do the hands on care. And my mom plans to stay at our place as much as possible. How long will it be until I am able to care for them? We can’t afford for my husband to be off work for 12 weeks. My mom is retired and is willing to help as long as we need, but 12 weeks is a big commitment and I feel bad asking for that. My sisters have offered to take turns to give my mom a break but we’re not sure what the Covid restrictions are going to look like in BC and if that will even be allowed. Currently we are limited to our individual households, which is just me, hubby and our 2 kids. Any advice is appreciated. Reading the threads has already answered some of my other questions and reduced my anxiety a little.